"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Walking by girls in public settings

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Started 3rd year of university this week and I made some interesting observations. To start off I'd say that I'm an above average looking dude but my confidence is through the roof especially as of this point of the year.

I feel like I've encrypted some data in how to tell if a female is feeling some sort of attraction to you but it's tricky

1. Eye contact and then she immediately looks away: This one depends on the context of the situation. If she immediately looks away as if it's outta panic that you can say she's probably into you. Girls sort of panic and feel uneasy when around a person they're attractive to. If she looks away with no other subtle reaction then you were probably just in the way.

2. Acting like you're not there: This is the main thing a lot of girls do when they see a guy they find attractive and it's been confirmed by them numerous times. For instance, suppose you're walking down the street and you see a girl walking towards your direction. If it feels like she's purposely trying to make you think you ain't crap to her, then thats a sign you actually are. This one is really tricky, you have to pick up on the small things to tell if she's doing it because she's actually attracted to you or if you really ain't ****. The more attractive girls usually do this to avoid showing a sign of weakness

3. Her body just panics/tenses. I notice this one a lot from HB8.5+. They're so used to being the centre of attention but when a male who's more attractive through his looks and presence (status) comes by, it completely gets them off guard. They either resort to #2 or this. You can tell this is the case because before they notice you they'll seem laid back and calm but once they notice you (you won't even see them look at you) they'll make an awkward gesture or summit to you by looking down or on their phone and back up when you pass by

4. Her friends get quiet and tense up. Girls do this as a gesture to prepare each other when a guy they find attractive is coming by them so they don't make a fool outta themselves and to signal that you're coming by. Noticed this quite often.

5. She starts blinking like crazy. She'll be walking all fine and all and when you come within her radius she'll start blinking atleast 5 times every second. This is the cutest gesture in my opinion and makes it the most obvious that she's really into you

6. Eye contact that lasts +2 seconds. Unless you did something weird, eye contact is a huge sign of sexual attraction.

I don't think anyone has really covered this topic lately so I thought I would. Any thoughts or comments feel free to let me know
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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