"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Walking Away From Hot Woman

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hello guys

so you meet a girl, the sex is amazing & she is seriously hot & some level you have a connection

over time you develop feelings for her & at this point she turns into a f@cking *****h

how many of you would walk away & dump her? knowing very well, that you may never pull one this hot again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Danger beat me to the punch. Yeah, I've already done this a few times.

Women are a lot like cars.. their best days are their early days. Once a car starts to fall apart.. you're a fool if you think its going to go back to being just like new with its ORIGINAL PARTS if you "wait long enough". :crackup:

Relationships with women are the same --> Once she turns into a disrespectful b!tch.. its downhill from there. You can stick around for more pain and drama or you can find ANOTHER hot girl. Which one makes more sense to you?
 

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Danger said:
I have done it before, and I would do it again.

It doesn't matter how hot she is, self-respect always comes first.
Ditto.


And FYI. I still get hot ones. They aren't as hot after you've done with them. Leftovers are never as attractive.
 

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Resolve to move-on with that woman. Don't write threads to keep her alive in your mind. She's gone, she's move on to another guy, you made a decision and it's one of those dumps as though you felt she happily moved on to another guy once you let her go.

Writing threads about her will not re-write your past. It's over. Accept it.
Don't go to places where you went with her together. Don't look at her facebook/linked-in, etc.... or look for updates with her. Most of all, don't write about her here with these types of threads that second guess yourself.

You made the RIGHT decision. You haven't got one poster here who said you made the wrong decision. You ended a toxic relationship. The lady is a cougar who is older than you are and many people on here would say a hot woman is usually yonger, has no children or baggage and is in their 20-26 year age range. You did not have a hot woman, you had a hot cougar with children and who has her "ex" up to the balls in child-support showing a wicked and jaded character as well.

Let her live her life, and it's time to live yours.
 

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i am doing my best to move on... i know i made the right decision... as there is no point in staying with a woman, if she has no future to offer you.

only drama & turmoil.. 1o days of no contact & thats how it will remain

no contact, till she is out of my system
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How are you doing in terms of progress? Both in improving your life and forgetting about her/getting over her.
 

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It happens bro

A buddy in College would always tell me this

"Girls are like buses every 15 mintues another one coming...."

This mentality has helped me tons. You gotta remember that you have the tools and skillset to meet another woman, just as hot or even hotter!
 

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I've done it many times.

It takes a real man to walk away from a hot woman. Very few can do it dude. Be proud that you're in the upper 90%.
 

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Renegade357 said:
I've done it many times.

It takes a real man to walk away from a hot woman. Very few can do it dude. Be proud that you're in the upper 90%.


those few who don't do it, get treated like crap & then eventually get cheated on & dumped.

i rather walk away with some dignity
 

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GetFit66 said:
How are you doing in terms of progress? Both in improving your life and forgetting about her/getting over her.


hello mate, thanx for your support getfit66

you know what i,m not doing too bad

i have no urge to contact her, or even hear anything from her... my goal is to stay in no contact...

after doing lots of research, i am pretty certain she is cluster b... and nothing i can do, could have, or would have, changed anything!

no amount of game, or manipulation would have worked with this old bag in the long run...

when ever i get frustrated, i come on here to vent lol

i,m mostly angry at myself, more than anything else... i am actually a very proud person, so feel like i let myself down... but i,m sure these emotions will pass over soon.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mate i,m done with that tramp... dumped her, gone no contact, staying the fucck away 100%
 

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I'll walk away. I did it before and I'll do it again. That is alpha. A beta will stay around no matter how bad it gets, even if she's f**king everybody who answered here.

If more men knew how to walk away, the dating game would be much better.
 

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nismo-4 said:
I'll walk away. I did it before and I'll do it again. That is alpha. A beta will stay around no matter how bad it gets, even if she's f**king everybody who answered here.

If more men knew how to walk away, the dating game would be much better.

this is true.... thing is, some of these woman are so f@cking manipulative, they really make you believe that they are on the level...

you have to listen to your gut... but sometimes your ****k takes over & gut takes a back seat!
 

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Espi said:
I am convinced that if I am not willing to walk away and risk losing them, I will stop attracting the hotties altogether.

I personally think that the most attractive women on this planet PREFER men who are willing to walk away. CONFIDENCE. "I don't need your approval."
I'd have to agree, but the sad thing is the more attractive they get the more cluster b issues pop up. I've tried to look at it differently over the years, but I can't keep ignoring the facts based on my own research.

I shake my head in disbelief of what women find attractive.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Espi said:
I am convinced that if I am not willing to walk away and risk losing them, I will stop attracting the hotties altogether.

I personally think that the most attractive women on this planet PREFER men who are willing to walk away. CONFIDENCE. "I don't need your approval."


where as i do agree with this... but there are some woman who are the exception.. even if they know you will walk away, some still don't feel the need to correct ther behaviour. simply because they are entilted selfish bi@tches

and they know they could replace your ass, pretty much straight away.
 

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soulforge said:
mate i,m done with that tramp... dumped her, gone no contact, staying the fucck away 100%

Why are you still making threads about that piece of human garbage? Go find a nice hot young foreign woman. She treats you like a king, no divorces, no kids, no drama.
 

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Soulforge repeat after me-

"Let the garbage man handle the garbage"
 

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StoneyRU said:
Soulforge repeat after me-

"Let the garbage man handle the garbage"

Too late. Even after all this, he called and BEGGED. Not just did he call, but BEGGED.

Nevermind, he was joking.
 
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