crazyfox40
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
walked away from her.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thorninmyside
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Three months and claiming ownership and then complaining about time together is usually what the person with the vagina does.
This would have been a good opportunity to spend 3 weeks of the months talking to other women without any dramatic speeches or demands, and making her see you're something to invest in. Are you?
But for a guy to pull out from being fun and being a nag in that sort of time, there's no way she was gonna play ball. Calling bluff only works if they have more in this than you.
This would have been a good opportunity to spend 3 weeks of the months talking to other women without any dramatic speeches or demands, and making her see you're something to invest in. Are you?
But for a guy to pull out from being fun and being a nag in that sort of time, there's no way she was gonna play ball. Calling bluff only works if they have more in this than you.
JohnChops
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Holy **** this is my situation except in the girl , comparing to yours. **** man she's in medical school, take it from someone on that path, I see my current GF about once every 2 weeks. It sucks when she bothers me and I'm trying to study or she guilts me into hanging out with her then I lose study time. Honestly, I'm siding with the girl on this one. Being a doctor > relationship all day.
So it wasn't working out, no biggie, walking away was pretty much all you could do. If she's anything like me, she isn't going to study less/less effort in school for a relationship. I know I wouldn't and just because she's a woman, doesn't mean she won't either.
Sorry bud.
So it wasn't working out, no biggie, walking away was pretty much all you could do. If she's anything like me, she isn't going to study less/less effort in school for a relationship. I know I wouldn't and just because she's a woman, doesn't mean she won't either.
Sorry bud.
sylvester the cat
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Oops.