"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

walked away from her.

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Thorninmyside

Thorninmyside

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2014
Messages
622
Reaction score
356
Three months and claiming ownership and then complaining about time together is usually what the person with the vagina does.

This would have been a good opportunity to spend 3 weeks of the months talking to other women without any dramatic speeches or demands, and making her see you're something to invest in. Are you?

But for a guy to pull out from being fun and being a nag in that sort of time, there's no way she was gonna play ball. Calling bluff only works if they have more in this than you.
 
J

JohnChops

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2012
Messages
2,734
Reaction score
481
Location
No more keyboard jockeying . Action is the place.
Holy **** this is my situation except in the girl , comparing to yours. **** man she's in medical school, take it from someone on that path, I see my current GF about once every 2 weeks. It sucks when she bothers me and I'm trying to study or she guilts me into hanging out with her then I lose study time. Honestly, I'm siding with the girl on this one. Being a doctor > relationship all day.

So it wasn't working out, no biggie, walking away was pretty much all you could do. If she's anything like me, she isn't going to study less/less effort in school for a relationship. I know I wouldn't and just because she's a woman, doesn't mean she won't either.

Sorry bud.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top