“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Wake Up!!!

So pimp its scary

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You guys are way over analysing the game... but not just that, you guys are overanalysing the parts of the game that have such little impact on your game.

You can learn all the fvcking lines in the book, but if you sound like a douche your gonna get shyt results and your gonna get called on your shytti game.

Dealing with 'Ignore tests', people freaked out because a woman TOUCHED HIM, "b!tch flaked, what do I do?'... fvckin are you guys fvckin retarded or what did your parents do to you to fvck up your minds so bad.

I see some of these posts and it litterally hurts my soul... it's like I could answer these people, but they are so far from 'getting' what's going on that it feels like a lost cause.

Then there's the few people that do show some potential from the first post... I'm sure that they end up getting a gf right away and no longer need the advice untill the relationship ends, but the majortiy of posts are from these guys with so little game that it hurts... I'm just glad that there are hard up enough chicks to take thse guys in, at least for a while.

Wake the fvck up people, the shyt is complicated, but so simple at the same time... just get out there, do something, if that doesn't work, try something else, and if that doesn't work try something else untill it DOES work. Reading this shyt can help get the right mentality to go out there, but if all you do is come back for everly little detail of a problem, your not gonna grow. You're gonna be stuck here using the place as a crutch.

Oh, if only there was a way to add a new section that would only allow access to those that clearly show that they know what's going on... but that would leave the poor newbies leading each other like cattle to the slaughterhouse. God, I look over some of this shyt and it makes me want to puke how sad some of you guys are... at least when it comes to women, I wish I could just line you all up and give you each a nice solid b!tch slap across the face.

Wake up!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Excellent observation and so truthful, So pimp....

When I first came here years ago, I simply read the front page and the archives and applied what I knew and what I was now learning and I was set to go. I didn't bother to read the forum, just simply went out and "did it".

Novel concept, huh?:rolleyes:

The forum of sosuave.com acts both in a saving and damning presence to those who read it, you want to know more and more about how to improve your inner game and the character of women in general when you first start out, so you end up coming here to read and enlighten yourself, ONLY to end up becoming more and more dependent on the forum itself for this same type of information.

You can always tell who has their inner game down from those who actually "GIVE" the advice, opposed to those people who are "ASKING" for it.

You can also see the guys who will end up coming back and asking for advice vs. those who will give them the answers. Ultimately it's the character of each man who decides to take the step and make the change that goes on to reap the benefits.

There is your two party class system.
 

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Take it easy man. Guys like me are just learning.
 

So pimp its scary

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It's not even a difference between those asking for advice and those offering that advice... I'm talking about something deeper.

I'm talking about the QUALITY of the problems that these guys are facing. I could deal with answering questions of high quality, "Ok, I've got these 10 girls that are chasing me down on a daily basis each fighting for the chance to slober all over my nob... thing is they are fat... how can I get skinnier girls to slob on my nob with such eagerness?? (As an exaggeration)

I mean, people aren't even focusing on the basics anymore... everyone is trying to find 'The QUICK FIX! for this ONE GIRL!!'

Seriously, back when I first came here, I was as AFC as they come, I don't care.... hell, I even tell girls that I date "If you would have met me 3 years ago, you'd have run the other way.", but when I got here I was flamed many times for asking rediculous questions... and I figured that the only way to get any decent help was to learn what I could and only ask questions that truly had me stuck. It forced me to go out there and learn what I could on my own time... and it was pretty quick where I was able to start giving out advice instead of sucking out all the information I could.

Now, for the AFC's reading this take offence, but don't take offense. Meaning take it as a wake up call, but don't take it as a personal attack. Hell, I bet if all you did was REREAD your own friggin questions before posting you'd probably answer your own question and just erase the thing.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"I'm making a post to make myself look better by telling everyone to go out and use the techniques even though I am clueless myself that people actually do go out and use the same techniques, and I'm also clueless that maybe people are just reading this to further their knowledge of picking up women."
 

So pimp its scary

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Wow man, you read me like a book...

You are really insightful, to know that the real reason why I'm posting my aggression towards the stupid noobie questions, is because I have no game of my own, and would look like a retard if I still posted noobie questions... hell, you might just start reading even further into it and accuse me of having multiple aliases on this site so that I can use the others to post my 'real noobie questions' and then change user to post about how I hate these types of questions...

If you're that good at reading into what people are saying, I can only imagine how pimp you must be with the ladies, I mean being so dead on with your analysations of what they say...

It's funny how with my lack of game, It still happens that I'm chatting with 2 women right now, as I'm writing this... one telling me about the great time I showed her this past weekend (as I got her to make a thanksgiving meal for myself and my roommates), the other wanting to know when the next time is that she'll get the chance to schlob all over my nob again.

Next you'll try to tell me that I'm making that up to so that I can make myself look better... hehe, You got me, I made it all up; the nights of getting 7+ chicks phone numbers and a lay (that doesn't happen in real life), the time I took a girl out to this restaurant and shagged her in the washroom after eating, the two month period where I was shagging 1-2 girls each weekend (Jan-Feb 05)... to bad I don't remember half- their names, hell, I even made up the time that I brought 2 girls home from the bar, and pawned one of them off on my roommate so that I could get at least one of them alone... (No threesomes yet, but I'm sure I might have faked one of those at one point or another).

Naw, I'm just a gameless tool that comes here for the ego boost of making myself look much better than I am... and not to have intelligent discussion about game, and different techniques that might take my game to the next level (which very well might be beyond the scope of this website).

Thank you there, Mr. DJMonk, you've opened my eyes.
 
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