"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

wake up song

Berlex

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 4, 2005
Messages
424
Reaction score
6
I like listening to Machinehead by Bush in the morning, usually puts me in a kick@ss mood. Anyone else?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Phyzzle

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 19, 2006
Messages
1,963
Reaction score
35
"What's the Frequency, Kenneth?" - REM
 

david90

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 3, 2004
Messages
423
Reaction score
0
Any good sarging music? Eye of the tiger song?:p
 

i am me

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2004
Messages
885
Reaction score
1
i listen to rap on the way to school..."big pimpin" or somethin. eye of the tiger sounds good tho if u want motivation. also, the other rocky song "gonna fly now"

i think its kinda dumb if u hav to get hyped up to get girls tho. then ur makin it into some kinda big deal
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

cactus3178

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2004
Messages
481
Reaction score
3
Age
48
Location
P-Town 503
Chemical Brothers - Galvanize

or

Hed PE - Suck it up

Both are kickass songs, especially Hed PE....most of their stuff is *****in.
 

zerocelcius

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2004
Messages
924
Reaction score
2
Age
47
Location
CA
DJ Shadow feat. Mos Def - "Six Days"
 

blinkwatt

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 6, 2005
Messages
1,904
Reaction score
7
Age
39
Any song off of the "Someone In Control" CD by Trapt. Preferreably,"Waiting" & "Victim".
 

Skilla_Staz

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2006
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
10
Age
37
Location
Omaha, Nebraska
Beer by Psychostick
 
Top