"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Waiting too long to ask a girl out? bad or good?

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Dont get the wrong idea, im not scared or hesitating.

I met this girl over the weekend through some mutual friends and we wound up exchanging #s. So anyway here is the dilemna: our schedules are conflicting. She goes to school during weekdays from morning till afternoon. I go to school at night and work during the day.

So basically that leads me back to square one, with Saturdays being the preferred day to hangout. Trying to do it during the weekday would more than likely be a hassle.

Anyway usually i wait out a day or 2 to call a girl and make a date. But i cant this time. She could lose interest by the time i set up something for this saturday.

anybody had a similar dilemna before?
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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She won't lose interest in that amount of time. I'm waiting 3 days to call some chick tomorrow. Seems SUPER innocent. Guess we'll see... :p They say wait 5 days blah blah.. screw that. I lose interest in that amount of time!
 
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I'd give it 2 days or so ... but make SURE you see here ALOT in the next week and make sure every time you see her that it's an activity that gets her excited, emotionally involved and increases kino. You should be able to sleep w/ her after a week and a bit, easily.

The more you get her to invest in you the higher chance you have of keeping her. So see her 2-3 times in the next week... even if it's just for an hour. But make it fun and make her miss your time.

- maverick
 
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hm, thanks for the responses. right now our interest level in each other seem average. Either that or she's not much of a conversationalist.

Definitely ill set something up for this saturday. But i wonder if i set something up earlier than saturday if she's going to think i have nothing better to do. Not like she has anything better to do herself afterschool.. Technically Im a college senior and she's a senior in h.s....so yea thats how it is.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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