The rule of thumb here is that a person should not call a chick whose number he got until three days after he got it. My question is does the rule vary for women that you have class with each week? I got a chick's number this Monday and have class with her every Monday. Tonight would be when I should call, given the "3 day rule" but I am debating whether to do so and set-up a formal date for this weekend or keep it cool until I see her Monday and nonchalantly ask her out to dinner after class. The idea behind that is that she would be more willing to do something that isn't a "formal" date, if you will, at this stage. What do experienced DJ's think about this?
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Waiting three days to call a classmate?
- Thread starter Enigma412
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IMO, there is no general rule of thumb. Call when you feel like it!
However dont call too early(desperate) like the same day. or call too late (she'll think your not interested).
in your case i would call her 2 days after the day you # closed.
All phone convos should be kept light, remember the phone is used to set dates.
However dont call too early(desperate) like the same day. or call too late (she'll think your not interested).
in your case i would call her 2 days after the day you # closed.
All phone convos should be kept light, remember the phone is used to set dates.
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Dont date class mate.
Pimp-sicle
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Rules are there as GUIDELINES.
Think about it this way bro. If this girl is truely into you, then she's not going to care if you called 2 days after or 4 days after, she's going to be anticipating your phone call and make damn sure that she answers when you call.
Secondly, the fact that she's in your class does change things a bit, but you only see her once a week. So I would've called her on Sunday, set up a date and then flirted with her the next day in class to build up the anticipation.
And you can't be serious about going to dinner? Do something fun and interview the fuvk outta her so you can figure out if she's worth your time.
PIMP
Think about it this way bro. If this girl is truely into you, then she's not going to care if you called 2 days after or 4 days after, she's going to be anticipating your phone call and make damn sure that she answers when you call.
Secondly, the fact that she's in your class does change things a bit, but you only see her once a week. So I would've called her on Sunday, set up a date and then flirted with her the next day in class to build up the anticipation.
And you can't be serious about going to dinner? Do something fun and interview the fuvk outta her so you can figure out if she's worth your time.
PIMP
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Cheat_LBJ
Don Juan
(Former DC resident here)Originally posted by Enigma412
I am right outside DC in Alexandria, VA. Would a Saturday at a museum be a good idea???
Do either the American History museum or the Air & Space museum -- both of those have more actual items displayed that can generate conversation, beyond the stuff most people see in museums.
If you're looking for a day/night doubleheader, check to see if anyone good is playing the 9:30 club. That's a fantastic time out.
Thanks. I personally prefer the American History one but a large group of us has already planned to go to the Air and Space museum. I am debating whether to go with the group or go to the American History one so we can be completely alone. Complicating matters is the fact that I was the chief organizer of the Air and Space trip, along with my roomate.
Would a trip to a museum make a good first date, though?
For the record, I am interning in DC. The large group is a group of interns. I want to have a series of events that allow interns to meet other interns and that is one of our early events. She is also an intern.
Edit: The Veronicas are playing this Saturday. Are they any good?
Would a trip to a museum make a good first date, though?
For the record, I am interning in DC. The large group is a group of interns. I want to have a series of events that allow interns to meet other interns and that is one of our early events. She is also an intern.
Edit: The Veronicas are playing this Saturday. Are they any good?
Update: I called her twice yesterday but she didn't pick up. I left a voicemail and she did not respond to it. I called her about 20 minutes ago and again she did not pick up. WTF happened??? She showed extremely high interest before (unless she is an attention *****!). What changed? Is this just a tough test of my interest, given the long delay in me calling? Was not calling her for a week really that big a deal??? Is there any chance in hell of salvaging something from this? Anything I can do during or after class???
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gimmeyofonenumba
Master Don Juan
That sux man. She didnt answer at all. Waiting a week is a long time, but I dunno the circumstances of your situation. Classmates I think are the toughest man. I always obsess with girls in my classes, I've approached a few and its always screwy...like its not supposed to happen. My only advice to you is be real enthusiastic the next time you see her, say whatsup, dont mention the phone call at all.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I totally agree. I usually call the next day.Originally posted by ScrewIt
IMO, there is no general rule of thumb. Call when you feel like it!
However dont call too early(desperate) like the same day. or call too late (she'll think your not interested).