Waiting on the return call

[deeman]

I called up this girl that used to work with me to ask her out to watch a movie and se was all for it, but, since she is a busy person, I told her to call ME and tell ME when she would be free to do it. That was a week ago now and I havent heard from her.

What do you guys think I should do next? Do I next her, do I call her, do I wait for a little more, do I send out a search party?
Help me guys.

 

[stevey_2000]

i'd ring her ONCE because we all know not many girls have the balls (haha, in more ways that one) to ring men so she could just be a little shy to ring you,

i'd give her a ring but if she comes across as cold when she answers the phone...tell her you have rung her to tell her your not interested

 

[chlywly]

That was a big mistake, you have to give her a date, set a time..... not leave it up to her to get back to you. You have to be specific.

 

[deeman]

I know, but I was, I was specific about everything but the time bcos I wanted to show some understanding (I actually know this girl). She just started a new job and is working late for a few weeks so I left the ball in her court to show:

a. I wasnt desperate.
b. I felt comfortable leaving her with that 'power' (even though it may have backfired)

If I had to rate IL before this I would say about a 7/10 posibbly an 8/10, but now I have no idea.

Oh, What to do what to do.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by chlywly
That was a big mistake, you have to give her a date, set a time..... not leave it up to her to get back to you. You have to be specific.

I agree, chalk it up to experience and find someone else. If she eventually calls, you may or may not be available yourself.

 

[MrMetropolis]

sounds to me like you were giving her everything she needs to make her feel better... "Oh, I have this guy who I can call whenever I "feel" like I need a date." LoL... quote inside a quote. HE WHO SUPPLICATES... MASTURBATES. see all that you have learned?

 

[matius]

Why not just call her and ask her out for a specific time and date. Not a big deal.