"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I met this girl at my college apartments and we chit chatted for a few days on the bus while commuting to school. We talked about where we were from, family, as well as the local bar scene. This past Thursday while conversating, she asked for my number and said "maybe we can hang out this weekend." I implied it will be cool and we went our seperate ways.

I am debating on whether or not to answer the phone because she may want to do something I do not want to do. I am hoping she leaves a voice message letting me know what she wants to do so I can have the knowledge beforehand to make up an excuse not to go if I do not like the plans.

I am also wondering why she hasn't called yet as well as how I should proceed next in this situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should have gotten her #.


Read the "DJ bible" link, at least Anti-dump's machine.
 
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Oh. Call her then. Don't wait for her to call you.

I mean, did she specifically ask you not to call her? If not, go ahead. Make something happen.
 

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