"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wait, or jump in and ask 4 coffee

Hoogie

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Sooooooooo,
This HB 9.7ish has been at my work 4 a while and on saturday i made out with her 4 about 10 seconds and we were being close and sh!t.... this was while we were out on the town....
Later on in the nite we went our seperate ways for a little while and later on, when i saw her in a different club she was playing me (I think it might have been because I left her, y'know, to show that even tho shes a massive hottie, im not gonna follow her around on my hands and knees).
She was dancing and staring at me while i danced and when i went over to dance with her she went off and danced with some other friends. Then I had to leave cause my ride was going and I thought, that in my drunken state, things might be better left in the air, with her still not knowing where she stands
During that nite, she got my number but I didnt get hers (the result of alcohol - I KNOW - STUPID STUPID MOVE)

SO........... I wanna ask her to coffee, but I'm on holidays for a week and generally I only see her at work
The whole club thing happened Friday night and I'm thinking of going in Tuesday(tomorrow) and asking.
Otherwise there is a chance I may see her on Wednesday nite.... but just a small chance

You think this is a good idea or should I ask her more casual, like i was just walking past her desk and thought why not ask?

CHEERS!
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hoogie

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sorry.. before when i started this thread it was hard to read and understand... i was in a rush

I've editted it now.... can anyone give any tips/advice
 

KillaCam

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Obviously because I don't know her I can't get a good read on her, but there's no reason why you shouldn't ask. Keep it low-key, to the point, and make sure it's not viewed as a big deal.

If she's an attention wh0re, chances are she will back off when you ask her. That's a sure sign to NEXT her. But hey, you'll never know unless you try, so give it a go.

Either way, don't hang on it too long. If you're gonna make a move, do it. If you're going to move on, do it. THe longer you leave it hanging in your mind the worse the possibilities become.
 
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