Wait for her to text me

[direstraits18]

so I went on a date with this girl, it went well. she traveled for a bit and we texted back and forth for the couple days she was there, sometimes me, sometimes her would initiate contact. here is our recent conversation via text

-I just landed, my whole life hurts(she went to do a marathon) I look like the tin man at the moment thats how stiff I am

- I'd rather have you be dorothy I bet you'd look cute in the red shoes

- Maybe one day, just not today or tomorrow or the next day

-alright well better or no date #2

- Maybe this week, if we got time. today would have been perfect, i'll figure something out

- I know but I literally am a mess, I wouldnt have been any fun

I ended up just replying "Yah"

so that was yesterday. no text from her today and I havent sent anything yet.

 

[expos]

so I went on a date with this girl, it went well. she traveled for a bit and we texted back and forth for the couple days she was there, sometimes me, sometimes her would initiate contact. here is our recent conversation via text

-I just landed, my whole life hurts(she went to do a marathon) I look like the tin man at the moment thats how stiff I am

- I'd rather have you be dorothy I bet you'd look cute in the red shoes

- Maybe one day, just not today or tomorrow or the next day

-alright well better or no date #2

- Maybe this week, if we got time. today would have been perfect, i'll figure something out

- I know but I literally am a mess, I wouldnt have been any fun

I ended up just replying "Yah"

so that was yesterday. no text from her today and I havent sent anything yet.

Text one line to her tomorrow. Do not text her today.

No response tomorrow to your text? Leave it be. Let her make the next move. You don't hear from her in a week...DELETE the number.

 

[direstraits18]

what should I text?

 

[VladPatton]

Text with a scope: to meet her at a given time/place, and that's it. Too much text communication. Either call and chat for 5 mins, or don't altogether. This cutesy texting where all you do is think of the best lines to woo her will dominate your waking hours while she's getting jack-hammered by another dude and sending you smiley faces. Face to face is the king of communication.

 

[Lord Hypnos]

if the first date went so well, then you wouldn't be getting all the 'maybe one day, maybe this week, if i find the time' bs for setting up the next one. just ignore her for a bit, or better yet, NEXT!