"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wait a minute...HB taking control?

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So what exactly does it mean when an HB proposes that she gives you her number so that the two of you can get together sometime....

and what does it mean when she's telling you when to call her....
cuz she will be free then and not so busy...

Apparently she is taking control of the situation...
but what does this mean..... because it can be interpreted a lot of ways... Itll be interesting to know what everyone else thinks on this subject and matter.
 

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Her suggesting you get together and giving you her number is a sign of high IL.

She is testing you though, telling you when to call her. Just pretty much ignore what she says and call her whenever you feel like it. Unless, of course, she is truly not available because of work, etc. You can be the judge of that.

Like I said in another post, you have to be very firm with the hot ones. TELL them you should get together on thursday. Tell them what time you will go out. Be specific and "sure" with everything that comes out of your mouth.

Good luck, and let us know how it works out!
 
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it very simple

1. she gives you her number SO YOU WILL CALL HER AND ASK HER OUT. There's nothing mysterious about that.

2. She suggests a time for you to call SO YOU DON'T PLAY PHONE TAG for 3 days. She's suggesting a time for you to call because she knows she'll be home then. Again, not too difficult. This means she really wants to talk to you, so you two can plan a time to go out.

She's just ensuring that she doesn't miss your call, not testing you.
Sure, call whenever you want to, but you'll probably miss her.

I don't think she's "taking charge" of the situation. Instead, SHE'S MAKING IT EASY FOR YOU. When a woman likes a man, she will make the chase easy for them, making sure she's not playing games with you or giving you the runaround.

Call her up and have a plan in mind - specific day, time, action date. If she can't go out that night. suggest another night a couple days later. good luck.
 
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