Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Waht is the ideal age for a woman for you?

StevenR

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Just curious, what is the ideal age of a woman for most men on here, especially those in their mid 30's and up? Does it change? Do you start finding women your age more attractive even as they age? Or do you still try to go for the 20 somethings? If so, how much success do you have at attracting women in this age group?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bsthatcher

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I am pretty picky about the age range I date. But I guess that comes with my plethora of sexual experience and knowing more about what I want in life at this advanced age. I'm sure younger folks out there are less restrictive. That said, I do limit myself to dating females between 18 and 45. Anything over 45 is just too much for me. I dated a 46 year old awhile back, and she was just too old. And since I already have a restraining order from my ex-wife, I do not need another from a 17 year old.

My suggestion: Being that you're in your 30's, I would only date women from about 30-35. Why? Because it leaves more for me.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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bsthatcher said:
...My suggestion: Being that you're in your 30's, I would only date women from about 30-35. Why? Because it leaves more for me.
Hey buddy, the line starts behind me! :woo:
 

AlphaSoldier

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StevenR said:
Just curious, what is the ideal age of a woman for most men on here, especially those in their mid 30's and up? Does it change? Do you start finding women your age more attractive even as they age? Or do you still try to go for the 20 somethings? If so, how much success do you have at attracting women in this age group?
34 / 2 + 7 = 24
 

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I don't limit my prospects by age, if I see an attractive women I go for it, I don't care if she's 19 or 60. I'd bang Cher, Madonna, or any older attractive women who has something to offer.

However when I was younger, I went for cougars, now that I'm 31, I tend to be attracted to younger women. However I'm open to any and all attractive pvssy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lookyoung

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I am not attracted to older woman at all. For the most part I don't find them attractive. I am 31 I prefer between the ages of 21-27
 

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For fun, sexually mature and not illegal. For LTR, your age minus 10. If you're a man younger than 30 you shouldn't be looking at an LTR anyway.
 

MacAvoy

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bigjohnson said:
For LTR, your age minus 10.
I'm 31 and would highly doubt I'd enter a LTR with a 21 yr old. I actually probably would but I would do so knowing that its bound for failure and I would just enjoy the sex.
 

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Early 30’s seem to be the sweet spot for me. Last year I dated younger but I am now seeing it was all for my ego and to show off; not for me. I was never totally comfortable with them. Anything older and they can’t keep up physically. I do a lot of outdoor things and if they are not in shape then I have no use for them.
 

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For a fvck or a fling= legal age.

For a serious long term relationship= 25 and up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GuanYu

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21-40ish

I'm a milf lover, but anything past 50 or so is probably too old for me. If there are 50+ women out there that resemble younger women I'd probably pounce them too ;)
 

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KontrollerX said:
For a fvck or a fling= legal age.

For a serious long term relationship= 25 and up.
Ditto on the fling. everything else, half my age plus seven. As for older, if she really kept herself up like Halle Berry, I would go for it, but most older women tend to let themselves go, wearing the mom jeans and mom hair, ugh :down:
 

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Despite my or anyone else's thoughts on this matter the reality is that the women I notice and am drawn to range from young to youngish to very young, all legal, of course.

My main plate is 27. Another is 32 and I have a new one 23.

I actually am curious about older women but dangnabbit I just keep getting distracted....

(I went after a mature woman, great bod, but she flaked, flaked exactly like 20's flaky behavior- go figure...oh, and another one, late 30s, turned out to be a major AW; so in my limited experience with "mature" women I missed the "mature" part somehow)

My ex is 36, so she's the perfect age for me. She did not think so, apparently...
 

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there is no ideal age. im 33, so 25-35 is good for me.

but when im 40 it might be 25-45.

when im 50 it might be 35-55.

and when im 60 it will be 18-25. :whistle:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Not being busted doesn't equal morality. If you end up in Moldova are you going to have sex with 8 year old blondes simply because you can get away with it? Guess the answer is yes for many of you. Thank God none of you travel outside of Western Europe.
 

meitenesrigas

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joekerr31 said:
there is no ideal age. im 33, so 25-35 is good for me.

but when im 40 it might be 25-45.

when im 50 it might be 35-55.

and when im 60 it will be 18-25. :whistle:
Well, when you turn 60 let me know. I can hook you up with a nice apartment in Kyiv or Riga (free airport transfer!). God knows we have enough 60 year old Western European guys running around these parts looking for just such girls. An American might add a little flavor to the scene.
 

Juando

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meitenesrigas said:
Not being busted doesn't equal morality. If you end up in Moldova are you going to have sex with 8 year old blondes simply because you can get away with it? Guess the answer is yes for many of you. Thank God none of you travel outside of Western Europe.
So...how do you happen to know all about sex with 8 year old blondes?

Oh, I see- info that just happened to fall in your lap, surely not something that would interest you... never.

I had sex with a 17 year old American girl on a regular basis.

She was my wife.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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