Wad about this ****y result? [edited for bad english sorry]

[queenkong]

She has a habit of chatting with her friends at night using her handphone. So we messaged each other with our handphones:

I : u sounds bored, nobody called u yet?
she: yup, don't know why, my phone was so quiet tonight.
I: are u hinting to me that i should call you?
She: no, don't bull****!!! But if u want to call me, i dont mind.
I: stop acting tough, jus say u need me and i'll call u right away!
she: U're bad. ok, i need you!!!! u made me so embarassed...

So i called her up and realised i was on the second line[which means her friends have already gave her a call.]. So she hanged up on her friend and chatted with me.

2nd night:

I: hey are you asleep? or on the phone again?
She: On the phone. Why? Want to call me? I don't mind hanging up on my frens for you.
I: oh, so u'r missing my calls? Its alright, u enjoy yourself with ur frens.
She: u'r so considerate!! But i exceeded my message quota for the month. I can only message you after the 17th this month. Feel free to call me k? [which means she's having problems with her handphone bills]


What do you guys think about this? Any chance here?


edit : sorry for the bad english. I tried to edit it. Hope it can be understood now?

 

[DJ4Real]

Stop offering to call her so much.

You're ruining the treat of your presence.

Think of it like this, someone gives you Snickers one day, and you LIKE the Snickers. The entire week, that same someone brings you more Snickers. You still like the Snickers, but it gets old and normal after awhile.

Calling is strategic act, in which you must strategize to keep your presence new and fresh.

Don't make it your job to entertain her everytime she say's "I'm bored" (or something in that nature). You have to show her that you have a life, too.

Don't become her "girlfriend", stop while you still can.

Good Luck

 

[queenkong]

Do you mean that even if the girl wants your company, you do not need to give her company everytime? Try to act like she's not very important actually that kind of feeling?

 

[DJ4Real]

Originally posted by queenkong
Do you mean that even if the girl wants your company, you do not need to give her company everytime? Try to act like she's not very important actually that kind of feeling?

That's right. Don't give her your attention all the time. Don't make her your number one priority. When you have "time" and a "break" from life, sure you can spend sometime with her. But, you have to work on when you'll be available and when you aren't. Give her time to think of you.

 

[Boner da Stoner]

wait a bit, it's cliche, but its true.

You overstayed your welcome, and she knows it, you probably messaged her today, now she is annoyed.

Don't beg for her attention so much, its time for her to chase you. It was excellent material at first, but you need to keep the mojo flowing.

lol, you want a technique from me don't you?

Alright here it goes


don't call her again.

 

[queenkong]

So u mean even when she sort of wants me, i shall play hard to get to make her think more? thats sounds interesting. lol.

so if i do not call her, do i wait until she takes any actions?

 

[DJ4Real]

Not necessarily "playing hard to get".

Just take a few, (or several, (not too much though) days for yourself and have some fun with your friends.

 

[queenkong]

if she doesnt take any action in the few days i take a break, should i make any move? Does it mean she's not interested at all actually if she doesnt do anything in the mean time?