You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jigga what?!Originally posted by Create Reality
DEE DEE DEE! YOU'RE A RETARD.
It drains your ballsack of semen and sperm. This in turn makes your balls shrivel up and technically this is considered having "small balls". So, to answer your question, jerkin off gives you small balls.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No. you be trippin'.Originally posted by requested
ok i read somewhere here to not wack off, why,, does it like lower your testosterone or something?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds like a bunch of new-age bullshit to me. Mind backing that up with some science?Originally posted by 539
Well, the way that it really works is that ejaculation leads to a loss of energy. And for those that practice tantric, you know the difference between ejaculation and orgasim. Totally different. This is all according to eastern philosophies. You can conduct your own experiements on this.
But when a man and a woman have sex and the man ejaculates from that, he's still loosing energy but he's also gaining energy in other areas. It's the union between man and woman that gives him energy. But if it's a negative experience, then the man's energy and health will also suffer.
Seriously. We all want to believe but we also don't want our balls to shrivel up and die!Originally posted by Scrumtulescence
Sounds like a bunch of new-age bullshit to me. Mind backing that up with some science?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yeah, like for a 10 minutesOriginally posted by DJ4Real
"wacking off" is a way to suppress sexual drive temporarily.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.