"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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W0manese translator needed!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PiHiPlaya

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Go for a good 'ol fashioned "oh goody, does this include a spanking?"

It just means that girl is interested and wants to tease a little bit. Innocent Flirting 101.
 

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its a frame they like to display as them being the prize also known as a chick test. you're confused because you didn't know how to deal with it. since you need clarifying obviously you want to turn any action from a girl into some displayment of higher value. there are plenty of ways to do this i suggest you read swinggcat's book.
ex:
1. frame it as them hitting on you
"you like me that much"
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
What does it mean when you're with a girl and things seem to be going very smooth. Then the girl looks at you and says.

"You're trouble."

Can somebody please explain what this means?

And how are you supposed to respond to that?

It means you are her kryptonite

With you around she won't be able to control her super powers of containment. The more exposure to you the less control she has over not ripping her clothes off and treating you like a love slave.

BUT

You have to make the move... IE YOU are trouble.... did you catch that... YOU are trouble.... YOU make the trouble... YOU ....
 

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zerocelcius nailed it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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xdreamz

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no but seriously it's important that you learn what these are... it's subcommunication. you don't want to have these chicks straight catch you cummin out and then they get to powerboost bounce on your ass. this goes for everybody not only women

"i heard you were out with the homeboys you should come out more"
"yea i will. how you been?"

FAIL!

"you're trouble"
"i guess so, does that mean we don't get to go out more often?"

FAIL!
 

zerocelcius

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xdreamz said:
no but seriously it's important that you learn what these are... it's subcommunication. you don't want to have these chicks straight catch you cummin out and then they get to powerboost bounce on your ass. this goes for everybody not only women

"i heard you were out with the homeboys you should come out more"
"yea i will. how you been?"

FAIL!

"you're trouble"
"i guess so, does that mean we don't get to go out more often?"

FAIL!

You lost me.... What are you saying?
 

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Her: "Your trouble..."
Me: "Why don't you see just how much trouble I truely am ;) "

comic_relief
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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