"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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W0manese translator needed!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PiHiPlaya

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Go for a good 'ol fashioned "oh goody, does this include a spanking?"

It just means that girl is interested and wants to tease a little bit. Innocent Flirting 101.
 

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its a frame they like to display as them being the prize also known as a chick test. you're confused because you didn't know how to deal with it. since you need clarifying obviously you want to turn any action from a girl into some displayment of higher value. there are plenty of ways to do this i suggest you read swinggcat's book.
ex:
1. frame it as them hitting on you
"you like me that much"
 

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I love Hyori Lee said:
What does it mean when you're with a girl and things seem to be going very smooth. Then the girl looks at you and says.

"You're trouble."

Can somebody please explain what this means?

And how are you supposed to respond to that?

It means you are her kryptonite

With you around she won't be able to control her super powers of containment. The more exposure to you the less control she has over not ripping her clothes off and treating you like a love slave.

BUT

You have to make the move... IE YOU are trouble.... did you catch that... YOU are trouble.... YOU make the trouble... YOU ....
 

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zerocelcius nailed it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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no but seriously it's important that you learn what these are... it's subcommunication. you don't want to have these chicks straight catch you cummin out and then they get to powerboost bounce on your ass. this goes for everybody not only women

"i heard you were out with the homeboys you should come out more"
"yea i will. how you been?"

FAIL!

"you're trouble"
"i guess so, does that mean we don't get to go out more often?"

FAIL!
 

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xdreamz said:
no but seriously it's important that you learn what these are... it's subcommunication. you don't want to have these chicks straight catch you cummin out and then they get to powerboost bounce on your ass. this goes for everybody not only women

"i heard you were out with the homeboys you should come out more"
"yea i will. how you been?"

FAIL!

"you're trouble"
"i guess so, does that mean we don't get to go out more often?"

FAIL!

You lost me.... What are you saying?
 

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Her: "Your trouble..."
Me: "Why don't you see just how much trouble I truely am ;) "

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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