"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey guys,

Last weekend a buddy of mine i meet up with at out local watering hole said the waitress "thought i was hot". i see her there most weekends, im just reluctant to hit on a waitress/beer tub girl for obvious reasons.

I bought a beer from her asked her if she like Italian food and walked away. Went back an 1/2 hour later for another beer, introduced myself and asked her out and gave her my number. I did notice she was nervous the whole time. Quick glances then looking down and fidgity hands. On my way out, i asked if she was going to call with a small smile on my face. To my surprise, she leaned over and gave me a hug and said yes! She said she put my number in her purse.

She hasnt called yet, but what can i do the next time i see her? I say ignore her and make her come to me, push-pull. She's an obvious hired-gun, but i think i have her in the right spot.

Also, What is the woman's def. of "hot"?? Cute, i've been called b4, but never hot.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hello genius.

If a girl calls you "hot" to one of her friends, it means she thinks you are physically attractive. Not very difficult to pan this out.

Now, what you gotta do is be the man. Not the AFC. Do not pedistalize her - you have the upper hand since she wants you more than you want her.
 
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i think you made a mistake by giving her your number instead of getting her number. You are a man and you are suppose to take charge, by giving her your number you just put the ball in her hand and you want her to take you to victory. It should be the other way around, i never ever give my number to girls even if i get theirs. They always ask me why and i say "i dont give my number to strangers, if i decide to call you , you will have my number". I know it seems arragont but if said right its gonna label you as a prize and make her swet for coupla days before you call her giving you that high IL we are all looking for.
 
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Prodigy746 said:
i think you made a mistake by giving her your number instead of getting her number. You are a man and you are suppose to take charge, by giving her your number you just put the ball in her hand and you want her to take you to victory. It should be the other way around, i never ever give my number to girls even if i get theirs. They always ask me why and i say "i dont give my number to strangers, if i decide to call you , you will have my number". I know it seems arragont but if said right its gonna label you as a prize and make her swet for coupla days before you call her giving you that high IL we are all looking for.
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All true, and worth repeating.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Luveno said:
Hello genius.
Do not pedistalize her -
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Absolutely! Do not pedistalize her. You might get thrown in jail as a pediphile.


Cheers!
 
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Should of gotten her number. I wouldn't be surpised if she never does call. Most women will never, ever make the first call; especially the hot ones.

When you see her next you have one chance to save this. Within 5 minutes from walking in, stroll over to her with a smile and take her hand and start inspecting her fingers. When she asks what you are doing say something like, oh, I just thought your fingers must be broke since you can't dial a phone. Then say give me your number instead and I'll show you how it's done. With a wink and smile. Then start over and lead her starting with your call to her.

If you just linger around and act awkward next time you see her it will be over.
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smooth as hell...
 
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Yeah you should have gotten her number and called her.

She is a waitress in a bar, do you think you are the only guy that night or the past week for that matter that she thought was "hot"? she obviously get hit on alot but the only difference is, will she prefer the man who will call, pursue her and set up the date, or will she prefer if she is the one that called him, did all the work and put herself in a situation where she could get rejected?! I think you know where I am going with this. You know why hot women never pursue guys? because they never have too. The less work they have to do the better for them and the better for you.
 
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DonS said:
Should of gotten her number. I wouldn't be surpised if she never does call. Most women will never, ever make the first call; especially the hot ones.

When you see her next you have one chance to save this. Within 5 minutes from walking in, stroll over to her with a smile and take her hand and start inspecting her fingers. When she asks what you are doing say something like, oh, I just thought your fingers must be broke since you can't dial a phone. Then say give me your number instead and I'll show you how it's done. With a wink and smile. Then start over and lead her starting with your call to her.

If you just linger around and act awkward next time you see her it will be over.
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Beautiful :up:
 
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romangod said:
Absolutely! Do not pedistalize her. You might get thrown in jail as a pediphile.


Cheers!
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See, that would have been funny if it was spelled "PEDOstal". But its not.

EPIC FAIL!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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romangod said:
Absolutely! Do not pedistalize her. You might get thrown in jail as a pediphile.


Cheers!
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Have a seat. Right over there. Reminds me of Chris Hansen from Dateline NBC.:crazy:

If you're called hot, she finds you attractive.:up:
 
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