"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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w00t. thanx pook!

scottfall

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“You are caught in the vicious cycle. You are hesitant because you are not used for things going your way. And things will never go your way because you remain hesitant. You see what you want, become hesitant, and the door of opportunity closes. It happens again. And again. And again. With each choice towards Inaction, you reject yourself a little bit more.”

Im sure its not a big deal for the DJs on here, but its a big deal for me. I just asked out a girl I work with.. and she said yes. Why? Because she saw how much of a pimp I am. Well, actually.. probably because shes desperate for some lovin. :p

So anyways, just wanted to say thanx to the guys on this forum. Without yall I would have never.. eeeever asked her out.

O happy day. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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hah, it's a good start. But Pook also says that habits are everything. Just asking out one girl and getting all excited about it isn't going to cut it. Don't get oneitis, and don't get upset if it doesn't work out.

congrats on being bold, tho
 

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I know what I have to do, my last relationship painted that picture for me. I know if things dont work out they just dont work out but Im going to do my best to make sure things dont work out because of my AFC tendinsies. I now know no woman wants to be with a insecure, emotinal wreck and ill do my best to display the stronger sides of my personality. If she dosent like it, then im ok with it.
 
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