"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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w00t. thanx pook!

scottfall

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“You are caught in the vicious cycle. You are hesitant because you are not used for things going your way. And things will never go your way because you remain hesitant. You see what you want, become hesitant, and the door of opportunity closes. It happens again. And again. And again. With each choice towards Inaction, you reject yourself a little bit more.”

Im sure its not a big deal for the DJs on here, but its a big deal for me. I just asked out a girl I work with.. and she said yes. Why? Because she saw how much of a pimp I am. Well, actually.. probably because shes desperate for some lovin. :p

So anyways, just wanted to say thanx to the guys on this forum. Without yall I would have never.. eeeever asked her out.

O happy day. :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hah, it's a good start. But Pook also says that habits are everything. Just asking out one girl and getting all excited about it isn't going to cut it. Don't get oneitis, and don't get upset if it doesn't work out.

congrats on being bold, tho
 

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I know what I have to do, my last relationship painted that picture for me. I know if things dont work out they just dont work out but Im going to do my best to make sure things dont work out because of my AFC tendinsies. I now know no woman wants to be with a insecure, emotinal wreck and ill do my best to display the stronger sides of my personality. If she dosent like it, then im ok with it.
 
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