VSSM: Exercise 1.1

[Vronski]

This is a thread for Vronski's Speed Seduction Manuals: Exercise 1.1

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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_

 

[De La Soul]

Seems like you're a little lacking in responses, so I'll start you off:

1. Have you ever felt...
2. Imagine if...
3. How would you feel if...
4. Do you remember a time when...
5. Have you ever seen...
6. Do you sometimes wish...
7. If you were...
8. Don't you think it's amazing when...
9. What would you do if...
10. Have you ever tasted...
11. Do you believe...
12. Could you ever...
13. Have you ever wondered...
14. How do you feel when...
15. Have you ever been in a situation when...

De La Soul

 

[XANEUS]

WEASLE PHRASES

Check me on these... I'm not sure of some of them.

1. Can you imagine...
2. What would it be like to...
3. How would it feel to...
4. Can you picture...
5. Can you feel...
6. Can you hear...
7. What if...
8. As you find yourself...
9. As you begin to...
10. If you were to...
11. If you could...
12. If you became...
13. When the time comes that...
14. The more you notice...
15. As you experience...
16. As you picture...
17. As you feel...
18. When you hear...
19. When you find...
20. As you find...
21. How would it feel to...
22. When you...
23. If you couldn't...
24. Have you ever...
25. As you think about...
26. When you think about...
27. The more you think about...
28. Wouldn't it be great if...
29. Wouldn't you love to...
30. How would you...

-X

 

[PrinceCharming]

Here's my list. So you wanted sentences eh?

1. What's it like when you feel attracted to someone?

2. Imagine you were approached by someone and before he even talked to you, you felt a connection starting to build.

3. What if you were to experience getting turned on just by simply imagining it?

4. How do you know when you are attracted to somone?

5. I always find myself being curious, you know the feeling when you look at something or somebosy, and you are not sure what they're realy like, but you can't help yourself from finding out more about them.

6. Do you sometimes wonder what's it like to see someone and have a feeling of having known them forever even though you can't quite make out where you met them.

7. You know when sometimes you think that you have figured something out completely, only to discover later that you were totally wrong and become aware that you've just lost an opportunity that could have been something.

8. Where were you last time you had a really amazing wonderful vacation? (wait for answer) What was it about that vacation that made it so amazing?

9. Isn't it interesting how sometimes you feel connected with someone? It's like you and him share this special experience.

10. Haven't you ever felt completely safe with someone you just met. It's like they radiated this calm energy and you knew that everything was going to be okay (this is a play on have you ever)

11. Well it's like you...
12. What do you usually do when you...
13. If you could...
14. Don't you have a secret wish that you...
15. Imagine you could...
16. Think about this. You're...
17. Do you first... and then.... or is it the opposite.
18. Can you think of...
19. Can you imagine...
20. Do you know what it's like to...
21. Did you know that women/men/people can...
22. I read somewhere that women/men/people can
23. As you think about it that way...
24. Isn't it nice when...
25. How suprised would you be if you were to...
26. Wouldn't it be fascinating if you could...

Had to edit this to add the first 10 sentences. I don't wanna do more than that, but if I did do you think it would help me?

The thinking process is: First think of the emotion you want them to feel/experience. Then think of a softener (weasel phrase) and then add in the description of the emotion.

Needless to say I'm not that much of a newbie on SS, but I never used it. I simply studied every free resource on the net, especially Tony's layguide.

[This message has been edited by PrinceCharming (edited 11-15-2002).]

 

[Awkward]

Example softener:

I hope this isn't going to be too personal, but I really like to know the persons I meet on a deeper level when I meet them, so without looking like a smuck I would like to ask you:

Jag hoppas verkligen inte att det här jag frågar nu kommer verka för personligt. Jag gillar att lära känna personer på en djupare nivå när jag träffar dem, så utan att framstå som en idiot så skulle jag vilja fråga:

Weasel Phrases:

1 A person can feel genuine joy when talking to someone for the first time.

En person kan känna en genuint glad när den pratar med någon för första gången.

2 If you would experience a utmost excitement when you meet someone, what would it like?

Om du skulle uppleva en otrolig spänning när du träffade någon, hur skulle det vara?

3 Have you ever become really attracted to someone you just meet?

Har du någonsin blivit riktigt attraherad av en person som du precis har mött?

4 Do you remeber a time when you felt really challenged by something in your life?

Minns du någon gång när du kände dig verkligt utmanad av någonting i ditt liv?

5. If you were to find yourself being absolutly drawn to a person, would you act on that feeling?

Om du skulle upptäcka att du blev helt dragen till en person, skulle du följa din känsla?

6 How do you find out if you are being curious about something?

Hur tar man reda på om man är nyfiken över något?

7 Is it bad to feel attracted to someone within a few minutes or is it something YOU REALLY WANT TO DO THAT.

Är det dåligt och känna sig attraherad av någon precis när man har träffats eller är det något som DU VERKLIGEN VILL GÖRA DET.

8 Is it just me who finds that it is wonderfull to feel an amazing connection to someone?

Är det bara jag som tycker att det är underbart att känna en otrolig samhörighet med någon?

9 You really shouldn't feel drawn to someone you've just meet, even if YOUR BODY TELLS YOU SO.

Du borde inte känna dig dragen till en person som du precis har träffat, även om DIN KROPP SÄGER SÅ.

10 Could you ever do something that is really wild without thinking about what will happen later, and just feel great?

Kan du någonsin göra någonting som är helt galet utan att tänka på vad som kommer hända sen, och bara känna hur allt är bra?

Bonustrack:

11 I command you to feel very attracted to me and as you hear my voice penetrate you you can experience how much you really like me as you start to think about me in a sexual way you see how much you want to below me.

haha

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Weasel Phrases

Is it good
Is it bad...
Is it wonderfull...
Is it XXX
Isn't it XXX
"Är det/ är det inte"

I use these, and they sound much better in my languge

"Is it/isn't it" build-up formula

Weasel + addjectice + command verb + Experience/process

Is it wonderfull to get really fascniated by someone?

Can't actually think of anyone that hasn't already written.

--- Awkward

 

[Raoul]

Awkward, I like your softener line! It makes everything seem a bit more natural rather then suddenly going "Hey, have you ever"

Anyway, here's my homework for 1.1 :

1)Did you ever feel completely at ease with someone you just met once you looked into their eyes?

2)Have you ever thought about what it would be like to go wild and live out your secret passions?

3)Isn't it a great feeling when you're laughing and having a good time with someone you feel at ease with?

4)Do you ever think about what your perfect holiday spot would be? <Response> What is it about that place that makes you happy to be there?

5)How did you feel the last time you were very attracted to a guy?

6)Isn't it a great feeling to be carefree and being able to live in the moment by doing something unexpected and exciting?

7)Wouldn't it be great if you could spend time with people who could experience the same euphoria that you do?

8)Have you ever feel so attracted to someone yet still so comfortable in their presence? What was it like?

9)Don't you find it interesting how two people who just met can have so much in common?

10)Were you ever in a situation where all you wanted for that moment was for a particular person to smile at you?

11)It's amazing how we feel when someone we're incredibly attracted to smiles at us isn't it?

12)Don't you ever wish that you could just do what your instinct tells you to do because you know that you'll enjoy it?

13)Have you ever experienced an instant connection with someone just through a touch?

14)Do you believe that our eyes express our inner-most desires?

15)Ice cream is great fun to eat. Isn't it fun to just let your tongue dive into it and let it soak in the delicious flavour while you close your eyes and just enjoy the sensation it has?

Some may be repitions, and some may be just plain wrong - This is my first experience with it - so comments/critiques are all welcome.

And Vronski, thanks for starting this. It's much appreciated.

- Raoul

 

[Awkward]

I owe Ross for that one, that man is a living god!

Next time I meet a chick I will show a picture of him so she get horny.

When doing weaselphrases I think the best way to do is to follow this formula:

Softener + weaselphrase + description + linking

Example pattern

I hope this isn't going to be too personal, but I really like to know the persons I meet on a deeper level when I meet them, so without looking like a smuck I would like to ask you: Have you ever had that feeling that you have connected to a person, like you started to GROW ATTACHED TO THE PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU. (point to yourself) And the more he talked, the more connected you felt until that point when ALL OTHER VOICES DIMINISH and you would BECOME ABSORBED by him. And then AS THE CONNECTION TAKE PLACE, you knew that it was safe to OPEN UP FOR HIM and LET ALL THE BARRIERS DROP (pause) AS YOU EXPERIENCE THIS. WITH ME I think it wonderful when it happen, and that you SHOULD NEVER LET A PERSON WHO MAKE YOU FEEL THIS DISAPPEAR FROM YOUR LIFE.

Any tips on how I can improve?

--- Awkward

 

[XANEUS]

Ok... now some complete sentences:

1. Have you ever felt totally attracted to someone?

2. Can you imagine feeling totally free?

3. As you begin to FEEL VERY ATTRACTED you begin to notice other things as well.

4. The more you resist this feeling, the more you REALIZE THIS IS WHAT YOU REALLY WANT... DEEP DOWN INSIDE YOU...

5. As you come... to the realization that you can REALLY OPEN YOURSELF COMPLETELY TO THIS PERSON. ME, I think this is an incredible experience.

6. When you BECOME FASCINATED BY THIS PERSON it is like the rest of the world just fades away.

7. Have you ever felt like WHAT YOU WANT IS HERE... YOUR DESIRE IS SITTING RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU... and all you have to do is OPEN YOURSELF to the possibility of being totally happy.

8. What would it be like to just LEAVE ALL YOUR WORRIES BEHIND and LIVE COMPLETELY IN THE MOMENT?

9. When you FEEL TOTALLY ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE, do you find that you IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO BE WITH THIS PERSON, or do you PICTURE ALL THE FUN PLACES YOU COULD GO WITH THIS PERSON.

10. Wouldn't it be great if you could just EXPERIENCE OVERWHELMING PASSION... even if it were for only one night?

There's 10... I might write some more later.

 

[mickey]

1.When you connect with someone and it feels like you can tell them anything. Does that make you just feel very close to him and it feels like he understands you

2.Can you remember a time when you were in love with someone and you felt completely attached and close to him.

3.Have you ever experienced being completely attracted to someone and just being uncontrollably horny.

4.Can you imagine feeling so close to someone that you could tell them anything. That you were fearless because you knew they would understand you.

5.When you get horny. Do you start getting hot and feel that you can’t control yourself.
Have you ever gotten so horny that you could not control yourself and had to let go by giving it up.

6.Have you ever had an incredible connection with someone. He seemed so trustworthy and it was like he could understand everything you felt.

7.Picture yourself in a relationship where you are fearless and have true happiness. And if you could Just imagine thinking back to this day as the start of that beautiful relationship.

8.Have you ever felt a deep attraction to someone who just made you wet with desire. He turned you on like no one else has before and he understood you better than you do.

9.I feel that one of the best sounds you can hear from someone are those three little words “I love you.” It instantly makes you close to that person and its almost as if you are experiencing true happiness


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Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good.

 

[Awkward]

Have you ever just had that bump, and you find yourself pushing... a post... up to the top of the discussion forum? And as you do that, you really know.. that that thread is just to important to be forgotten... now... I do that as often I can.

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--- Awkward

Speed Seduction Bible

 

[KinoOI]

Originally posted by Awkward:
Have you ever just had that bump, and you find yourself pushing... a post... up to the top of the discussion forum? And as you do that, you really know.. that that thread is just to important to be forgotten... now... I do that as often I can.

Oh my... <checks for temp>... he's got SSitis.
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The Performer
Anthony
AIM: KinoOI
E-mail: [email protected]

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN by Robert Frost
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;
Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,
And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.
I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

[This message has been edited by KinoOI (edited 11-29-2002).]

 

[Awkward]

You make me laugh, and you make me see red with your g*ddamn signature

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--- Awkward

Speed Seduction Bible

 

[oreo_renegade]

lol you give two right off the bat, with your next two sentances:
at least i think... lol im not really good at this, was kinda distracted while reading, so if you could, tell me if mine are ok, alos, i made these up before reading hte other peoples, so i could stay creative, and i apoligize for the poor quality and and copying others ppl in advance lol


1.Do you see how excited someone can feel?
2.Don’t you feel attached to someone whos special?
3.have you ever believed that this is exactly what you wanted?
4.isnt it only natural to feel desire?
5.dont you have the urge to have and incredible connection?
6.have you ever got so excited, you cant even think?
7.imagine the feeling of love
8.have you ever wanted to give in to what feels best?
(isnt this a lot harder then i thought lol)
9.can you feel getting hot?
10.remember how secure you felt under your blanket?
11.how would it feel to get a rush of excitement?
12.have you ever thought about beaing obedient to your emotions?
13.can you picture feeling this awesome attraction?
14.isnt it easy to get aroused..just over a thought?
15.dont you ever feel like if you were more daring, things would go your way?
16.have you ever desired sometihng witha burning passion?
17.can you imagine what its like to completly trust a person?
18.have you ever heard music that made you act daring?
19.How great would it be.. just to be close to someone?
(blah! 11 more lol)
20.how would you feel.. if all of a sudden you knew this had to be real?
21.have you ever tasted something taht just amazed your senses?
22.can you picture being outside, having all your senses stimulated
23.havent you ever believed that sometimes, you just need to let go?
24.have you ever wondered what its like to feel total exstacy?
25.wouldnt it be great just to feel secur, like you could trust someone?
26.doesnt it feel awesome to have a special bond?
ok im done lol. taht all the ones i can make for now

lol

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"... I'm tensed a bit,
and tempted,
when I see the sins,
my friends commit,
I'm infinite... "-EMINEM

 

[laura]

g'day, i'm just here to offer my critical opinion as a member of the race you are all learning to exploit...
mostly good - but be careful not to sound too wimpy, if a guy ever asked me what it's like to 'connect' with someone I'd run a mile, and the same goes for things like 'feeling at ease' with someone - i feel at ease with my Mum, i doubt that sort of girlish terminology would do much for most girls..keep it simple and sexy

hope that's useful for somebody