Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Voting for Women

Desdinova

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We've got an election coming up in the city, and a woman is running for mayor. I personally feel that a woman shouldn't be running our city, so I'll be voting for someone else. However, the woman seems to have a very good chance of winning.

Anyone else here avoid voting for women?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stagger Lee

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I avoid voting for a woman unless I know her opponent is really bad. I avoid women in business and professional matters as much as possible. They tend to be incompetent and biased. I philosophically oppose feminism and women holding positions of authority or influence.
 

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Her feeelz will always trump common sense.

Desdinova said:
Anyone else here avoid voting for women?
Like the plague.

When and if I ever meet a chick who leaves me thinking "Now that's one logical chick who could hypothetically lead a nation to greatness" I'll rethink my stance. Estrogen is not really a precursor for self actualization/awareness.

They left the women in charge of Sweden and look at the bang up job they seem to be doing.

http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=de1_1394099792

http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/gender-madness-swedish-pre-school-bans-him-and-her

http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/352108

http://www.vice.com/read/swedish-feminists-are-so-bored-theyre-telling-men-how-to-sit-on-the-bus
 
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Women politicians seem to do things based off of feels. Some male ones do the same but based on others feels to appeal to that group and get votes.

Most of the time its a bad idea, you cant base anything important off of your emotions. Men tend to be far better at compartmentalization.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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that's pretty retarded to not vote for a woman because she's a woman. IF shes more qualified i have no problem at all voting for a woman.
 

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If she has the legit accomplishments and a POV harmonious with mine, sure, will vote for a woman. Those are rare. But yes, as a "feminism/affirmative action" survivor in so many ways throughout my life and career, I can't help but have some residual bias against female candidates until I learn more about them individually.
 

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backbreaker said:
that's pretty retarded to not vote for a woman because she's a woman. IF shes more qualified i have no problem at all voting for a woman.
Do people like you just have a mental block with reality? Did you not read the posts? They clearly explained WHY it's not a good idea for a woman to lead, BECAUSE she's a woman.

Obviously there are exceptions. That's why they say a woman can have a chance to prove themselves. But that should realistically be a rare thing.

Actually the people you describe are the idiots who do exactly that. The idiot women who voted for Palin and will vote for Hillary simply because they want a woman in office. And the 99% of American blacks who voted for Obama simply because they wanted a black president.

You need to redirect your name calling to the right people, genius.
 

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Not too long ago, we had an election where I live and I voted for a woman for the reason that the ideas and platform her party stood for resonated the most with my political views as opposed to what the other parties were offering. The same is true when I have voted for male candidates.

There are a lot of capable women out there running countries, giant corporations, etc.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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samspade said:
I simply avoid voting. It doesn't make a difference where I live and the choices always suck, so it's not worth my time. I don't like government so why bother consenting to allow one azzhole govern me instead of another.
With all due respect, this is sort of....well, dumb. You live in a country where you will be governed, so you may as well exercise your ONE say-so in that matter. Not voting is simply a cop-out in my opinion.
 

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Blistex said:
There are a lot of capable women out there running countries, giant corporations, etc.
No there isn't. And there's a reason for that. And it's not because men are holding them down.
 

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I don't care about gender. I'm all for who brings what to the table.

But voting is pointless. Is your vote going to make a difference? Hardly.
 
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