"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SamePendo

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Why not vote for a mod, people who want to be mods tell they want to be so, and guys vote for them. And Allen has this in mind when choosing them. This way, I hope some of the bs complaining would come to a pre-canned response "Next time vote for someone else".
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Latinoman

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SamePendo said:
Why not vote for a mod, people who want to be mods tell they want to be so, and guys vote for them. And Allen has this in mind when choosing them. This way, I hope some of the bs complaining would come to a pre-canned response "Next time vote for someone else".
This should not be a democracy. This is a privately owned forum.

We can provide inputs (in order to motivate or encourage some individuals to appy for it)...but at the end...it should be up to the owner of the site.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Isn't it up to the Mods or Allen anyway? I'm guessing that they already know who they would consider.
 
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