Volunteering

[mahon83050]

I looked into this and there is plenty of stuff available (esp in NYC and Philly metro areas) As someone who is 30, not a big drinker and know bars and clubs are poor places to meet women..look into this stuff. Alot of these places are only looking for 2-4 hours a MONTH!!

Remember, meeting people is all about networking, which leads to more people, etc. So, unless you have friends who are good at setting you up (mine don't, they are all selfish lol) or actually think bars are good places to meet women, ignore this posting.

I prefer to meet women in a more relaxed setting instead of hitting on a girl in a bar and then getting sucker punched in the head by some jealous drunk dude (has not happened to me, but my friend has been assaulted 2X in a bar/club for dancing with/hitting on a chick)




http://www.volunteermatch.org/

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[CGE333]

I think this could definately work and depending on the type of woman you want to meet, this could be it. When I was working @ one company in San Diego there were a couple of hotties that one night per week, would volunteer at a local school district to help students w/ their homework etc.

I would imagine the girl to guy ratio in a lot of these volunteer places is in our favor.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

Are there any stats of the male/female ratios of different volunteering fields?

 

[Serialized3]

I was thinking of voluteering, but I would feel sort of bad about it because it would be for the wrong reason.

Ideally, I would like to want to voluteer to benefit society, but right now I would be voluteering for "self-interested" reasons. I think I'd feel like a big phony voluteering to be self-serving instead of altruistically.

 

[bigappledj]

I have been studying DJ techniques and I think it is against DJ style to look for places where it is easy to get the women. Trying to make ourselves better should be about getting the women where and when we want. I want to be the alpha wherever it is I am.

 

[sadburger]

Volunteering is great, and certainly is good way to network and meet women, however you really should do it for the sake of helping others. If you happen to meet someone along the way, that is just a bonus.

I'm not saying you need to volunteer if that doesn't appeal to you, but that if you happen to be the type that would actually get something out of helping others you should definitely do it.

And there really are tons of ways you can help, just pick something you know and see how you can apply it in real-life situations (I am a computer programmer/administrator and volunteer with a few local non-profits some technical support service to fix their comps when they need it).

It may not be much but in my case I feel it helps me to be a more complete and rounded person, and I've had some interesting experiences along the way that make great conversation piececs.