Void in my life.

[Zeus]

Iam reaching out to you guys to help me. I feel like a void in my life, like something is missing and that iam stuck.

I had a girlfriend for a year, but i ended it 2 weeks ago cause i just couldent keep fooling myself any longer that it was "the real thing". I was saying to myself "come dude, wtf are you doing with your life"? "you are just an avrage joe" and i want to much more from this life.

How can i get it all? I dont want to feel sorry for myself, i want guidlines so i can start to change, and become everything i ever wanted.

 

[vonbock]

Hello Buddy,
I feel the same way too at imes. You are probably feeling depressed thinking that you won't be able to find anyone else. Girls have it easy in this country. They can break up with a guy and find a new boyfriend tomorrow. We guys have to go out, get rejected, get put down, etc. Heck, I have a professional career making 6 figures a year. House paid off, no loans, decent looking and still had problems with getting girls to going out with me. I know its hard to say but I noticed am more happier being single and reading, working out, traveling, working, than being with a girl that caused me so much headaches. Hope this helps.

 

[Zeus]

Hi,

I agree its better to be single and happy, than be with a woman who is causing you problems and unhappiness.

I dont have problems meeting woman, but i have a big problem figuring what i want to do with my life, i belive i have much potential but somehow i just cant use it fully. Like a Ferrari stuck in second gear...

 

[Interceptor]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141445

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=138456

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=141177

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136262

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=140631

Read these posts

Then read The Book of Pook.

Then look up David DeAngelo's On Being a Man, and Deep Inner Game.

Start a workout program. This is non negotiable.

Begin looking into meditiation and deep breathing exercises.

Go here:
http://www.hypnotica.org/privatedownloads.htm


http://doctorpaul.net/

Focus at the very least ONE HOUR per day, EVERY DAY to working on this..this is your Time for Self Improvement and Self Reflection.

If you DO NOT Take these STEPS you are being LAZY and IRRESPONSIBLE

IF you contiue to ignore good advice and help you will become SHUNNED and IGNORED.

Take advantage of the hlep you are being given and take ACTION.

This is for you, not for someone else. this is YOUR LIFE, not someone else's.


Think about that.

 

[Zeus]

Okey now we are getting somewhere, i will begin to work with it right away. About the workout program, i hit the gym 5 times/week so that wont be a problem

 

[Huffman]

Thanks for bringing up that info, Interceptor!

 

[sherineo]

Rent and Watch 8Mile (Eminem starrer) ...

dude you need some ambition....