Voice.

[SilverSonnet]

How do I deepen my voice, make myself sound more masculine?
Also, a good friend told me, I'm too hyper and bubbly, and I talk too much, do you think I should tone it down abit?


Silver out.

 

[coacj]

deepening your voice, i dont think you can do that because it just sounds like your "fakin a funk" and women can spot that out, just keep your voice the way it is
BUT!!!, you can fix your situtation with being hyper and talking to much, please fix that

 

[aliasguy]

Talk slowly and quietly.

Really.

 

[muscleman]

Voice tone is heavily influenced by testosterone. Lift weights and your voice will become deeper over time.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Just practice speaking lower....although keep it real and don't overdo it.

Interesting subject....there's been some articles on this, so you are on to something.

http://www.livescience.com/health/060731_pitch_dominance.html

 

[DJVladdy]

lol, i just imagine a nerdy guy trying to fake a deeper voice in front of a female, or anybody else. Look at Robbie Williams: he sounds like a kid, yet he does well in life, you know.

 

[Obsidian]

don't worry about your voice. Eliminate the desperation, social awkwardness, and fear from your life, and you'll be fine. A man is not measured primarily by his looks or by the tone of his voice. It's his level of power, stability, liveliness, and ambition that matter. As far as being bubbly goes, that could probably fulfill the liveliness aspect. Just work on the other parts.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Don't worry about making your voice sound DEEP instead focus on having a...

EXPRESSIVE and LOUD voice

If you can't project your voice then your really shooting yourself in the fit because your voice is VERY IMPORTANT. Don't got it confused that I'm saying its the most important because you speak with your voice, I'm saying it because your expressive voice is what is conveying the sub-communication of the content being said.

If your not expressive, your not doing nothing with your voice
If your not loud your going to have a hard time getting attention and can get blown out more because the chick can act like she didn't hear you.

 

[SilverSonnet]

Your replies are all good and well, but feeling good about myself. I already do. There's nothing in me that makes me unhappy, I just want to improve myself, not just for women, but for being a MAN, I want to feel like a guy. So, please, instead of the usual, dont worry be happy bull, can I have something that WILL aid me in my problems?

Much thanks, Silver.

 

[Obsidian]

I don't really care about whether you're worrying or being happy. I care about the fact that you've heard concerns about your talkativeness and your bubbly nature. The friend who told you about your issues may be totally off-base, but if he's correct, then it has way more to do with your attitude than with your voice. If you're bubbly and too talkative, what he means is that people aren't taking you seriously. And it's probably NOT because you're too happy; it's probably because you're not standing up for yourself and being assertive (and because you're not ditching any friends who refuse to respect you properly).

Of course, it is possible to be TOO chatty. I know one girl who just jabbers on and on whenever I'm around her, and she can get on my nerves sometimes for that reason. But in most cases, talking too much isn't a problem -- as long as you're listening to others and not hogging conversation time.

And I don't think a voice is something you can really change. You can practice slowing down your speech and trying to talk in a lower pitch, but I don't think there's a whole lot you can really do.

 

[SilverSonnet]

Thankyou obsidian, that was a serious answer i was looking for. I'll try lowering my voice manually, stop talking to much, and stop being in peoples faces ALL the time, and I'll get back to you on it.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

What, my answer wasn't serious? Psh!

 

[SilverSonnet]

Man, your answer was serious, I'm just talking about the crap 'let's be happy with ourselves..'

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Cool.

 

[SilverSonnet]

i read that thing. it's pretty cool.

 

[diablo]

Moved to AE...

 

[meitenesrigas]

Your voice is your voice. Love it. Mike Tyson and Michael Jackson don't have tough guy voices. Actually, their voices are part of what makes them so famous.

I don't like hyper folks, but you are who you are. Too many folks on here tell you to be something you are not. There are billions of people out there. Maybe travel or try something different. Some will like you for who you are. Stick with those.

I know it won't sell lame videos or courses, but being who you are to the max will increase your status. I promise you that.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

Your voice is your voice. Love it. Mike Tyson and Michael Jackson don't have tough guy voices. Actually, their voices are part of what makes them so famous.

Yeah well, one buggers little boys, the other bites ears.....that's not the best example.

 

[Aboleo]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMiEvUaIot4

This method of singing will make your voice very powerful sounding if you work with it correctly.

You can watch all of it on youtube.

 

[SilverSonnet]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rMiEvUaIot4

This method of singing will make your voice very powerful sounding if you work with it correctly.

You can watch all of it on youtube.

I seem to be unable to find this.....some links would be V. much appreciated.:rock: