"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Voice Training?

Huffman

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Hi Folks,

I really hate to start new threads everytime, but you have to admit the search function is actually kind of borked.

So:
I'd love to enhance my voice, perhaps make it a little more smooth and powerful... have it reflect my inner confidence in any approach.

Do you know any free resources about training your voice - articles on the net, perhaps even threads in this Forum? Much appreciated!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Create Reality

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practice speaking at a consistent volume level where you like the sound of your voice. you'll fall into the habit of using that volume level more frequently
 

War Against Betaism

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You know how you hear yourself, and then you hear yourself in a recording and you're like "Wow I sound so different!" When you hear yourself in your head, make sure it sounds like you're screaming. If you're loud you'll project power.

When you're speaking, make sure the power comes from your chest. You can check this by putting your hand over your chest and checking for a vibration.
 

Dilberto

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Bring every word you speak, up from deep in your gut. People with alot of self-confidence, always speak this way. I learned about this from sales training. Practice using a voice recorder. I went from sounding like a nasal teenager, to news broadcaster- this way. Also, take a deep breath before speaking. Go to the gym, too. Working-out creates more testosterone....which automatically deepens the sound of your voice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lord Shinra

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I'm Italian, so we use our hands (I'm sure you've heard the jokes.)

But, along with using the hands, make sure your voice projects confidence. Alot.
 
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