"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Voice mails

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So whats the deal with voice mails?
Leave one, don't leave one?


Can someone tell me examples of what to say also in certain situations like a girl you just met or a girl you have been talking to for awhile?

Also like what to say so you don't sound like an AFC and say what everyone else would.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Less is more. "Hey this Mark, call me back" and then hang up. You can't win many points by leaving a "great" message, whatever that means, so just keep it short. If they like you, then a voicemail won't tip the scales, unless its really bad or incongruent with what they've seen in person. And then when you have shared some time together, you can improvise a little or throw in an inside joke to make them laugh out loud, just like you would do when leaving a message for a friend.
 
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Good post King of Hearts.


I remember when I first getting into the game way back when and all the things I use to read about phone game etc. While phone game is important when you get her on the phone, the whole leave a message or not debate is really pretty silly in my opinion.

Here's the deal:

As King mentioned, if you do your job right in the initial PU, the chick will be dying to hear from you, so most likely she'll answer or call you back pretty quickly.

However, if I really had to give an opinion on this matter, I'd say DO NOT leave a message on the initial call. Once you've talked to her a couple times and you guys are actively talking then it doesn't matter much.

I know I might get a lot of hate for this and believe me I was against this before, but text has really taken over as the preferred method of communication for most women between 18-30ish.


Bottom line: Become skilled at doing a good job in the initial pick up and you won't have to worry about this issue.




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