"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vocal cord problem

DDevil

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For some reason when I'm talking to someone new or a girl it seems like my vocal get tight (like when your trying to hold back crying and your throat feels weird). why does this happen and how do you prevent this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Noctlos

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clear your throat... lots of people give a good hmmhmhmhmmmmm before they speak to make sure that their voice is correct.
 

DJ_in_making

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It's probably b/c you're nervous. You ever see on t.v. when characters are nervous and they give a big *gulp* of their saliva? That's the same thing.
 
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