"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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vocal cord problem

DDevil

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For some reason when I'm talking to someone new or a girl it seems like my vocal get tight (like when your trying to hold back crying and your throat feels weird). why does this happen and how do you prevent this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Noctlos

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clear your throat... lots of people give a good hmmhmhmhmmmmm before they speak to make sure that their voice is correct.
 

DJ_in_making

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It's probably b/c you're nervous. You ever see on t.v. when characters are nervous and they give a big *gulp* of their saliva? That's the same thing.
 
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