"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vivid dreams

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I guess everybody gets them, for me my dreams always involve the past or people I haven't seen in years. When I was working my supervisor job there was quite a few nightmares about work dreaming about work place accidents or things that were safety issues that actually happened months later.

Couple nights ago I was driving a truck I owned back when I was in my early 20s I used to be in trucking business for years it was my second truck I bought. I just can't explain why I dream about the past. Last night I'm sitting at a table with a female friend and my ex, my ex was giving me the attitude she would give me when she was angry with me I was about to tell her to phuck off when I woke up..... grr. The dream was accurate right down to how she used to rub my fingers when ever I handed her something.

They say vivid dreams happen when you going through weight loss, I've been slowly loosing fat over the last couple years since I'm living a healthier life style.

It is creepy how your brain can make you picture people you've haven't seen in years like you just seen them yesterday.

I know this is a little ramble...... it is nice to be living a easier stress free life my current job doesn't stress me out. What happens at work stays at work, I actually get a full 7-7.5 hours of sleep at night in my previous job I suffered from insomnia the stress at work would keep me awake at night 4-5 hours of sleep was a good night.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I noticed that a high zinc intake makes vivid dreams much more frequent, on the other side it made wet dreams very common too which is not the best thing if you dont have the time to shower at morning.
 

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What kind and how much zinc do you take? When do you take it?
Zinc picolinate right before turning the lights off, it gets me vivid dreams and wet dreams much more often than without.

If I take 1 hour before going to sleep, I feel less sleepy.
 

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Any kind of pills will give me wicked vivid dreams. Tylenol, ibuprofen even vitamins. pretty much anything. It's pretty weird.
 
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