"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Visualize this, it will help you to move forward.

Mission

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I want you all to use this visualization to help you to always move forward with your experiences with women, and everything in life.

Right now, at this point in your life, you are at home. Everything you did in your life up until now is inside the house, there is a big "for sale" sign outside the house, you have locked all the doors and you are leaving. You have memories of the things that are in the house, but they are no longer part of your life. The house represents everything in your life you have done up until here, and you sitting outside the house beside your car is you deciding to make a substantial change in your life.

Now you get in your car, and you start driving, this represents you as you begin to gather knowledge on how you want to lead your "new" life. Here is the catch, you are driving down a single lane highway, there is no traffic coming the opposite direction, there is no way to go back. There are also forks in the road, with signs, the signs represent decisions that you get to make along the way, such as "talk to her" and beside it "don't talk to her" each pointing in a different direction. Each path is an alternate universe, your life will change based on what decision you make. This is how life is, there are thousands of dimensions layered on top of each other, and each decision shapes what dimension you are in. Take that in for a second, think about it.

Carrying on, as you drive down this road, you get to choose the speed you go at, you can even stop, BUT you can NEVER turn around. You are free to stop and look at scenery, these are your memories, and they are experiences in life, and you get to choose how long you want to hold onto them for, before they become just another piece of passing scenery on the road. Whenever you approach a city, is a major event in your life, there are many forks in the road, and many things to take in and learn. Remember, as long as you are driving down this road of your "new" life, you are improving, you are learning more. You get to consciously decide which way you are going to go at each fork, you get to decide which alternate universe you are going to live in.

Think about this as you live your life, think of each decision as a fork in the road and slow down to decide which way you want to go. Think of women the same way, consider what will happen is you go AFC on her, or what will happen if you are DJ about it.

--Mission
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good advice. Too much visualization for me though. I prefer the "If act like a p*ssy, you won't get any of it" type mentality. Quick and to the point.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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