Visualize Girls to GET GIRLS?!

[DarthAngel707]

Hi guys, I'm sure you guys are all familiar with self-help books, and I was reading Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz the other day which gave me some inspiration.

One paragraph said that a salesman improved his sales by 200% by visualizing every possible situation he was put in and handling it accordingly. Another paragraph stated that there was a study done where people who visualized free-throws shot just as well as the other group who actually shot free-throws. And in The Secret one guy stated that the brain can't tell the difference between a real and imagined experience.

So I'm wondering can you get good at game by actually visualizing yourself in various situations with women and seeing yourself handling it well?

I'm sure a lot of people have done this and know its nothing new but I just want to know their thoughts. And I'm still trying to visualize how to answer when girls ask, "So what do you do? How many girlfriends did you have?"

 

[DarthAngel707]

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[Purple-Haze]

Hi guys, I'm sure you guys are all familiar with self-help books, and I was reading Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz the other day which gave me some inspiration.

One paragraph said that a salesman improved his sales by 200% by visualizing every possible situation he was put in and handling it accordingly. Another paragraph stated that there was a study done where people who visualized free-throws shot just as well as the other group who actually shot free-throws. And in The Secret one guy stated that the brain can't tell the difference between a real and imagined experience.

So I'm wondering can you get good at game by actually visualizing yourself in various situations with women and seeing yourself handling it well?

I'm sure a lot of people have done this and know its nothing new but I just want to know their thoughts. And I'm still trying to visualize how to answer when girls ask, "So what do you do? How many girlfriends did you have?"

I think this actually works.

I used to daydream about my physical ideal before (a lot of us ladies seem to do this). Anyway, I remember certain characteristics that I used to visualize (i.e. teeth, height, eyes, hands, etc). I never thought much about it (it was just something fun to do...sit there and daydream). Turns out I ended up with someone who fits this description almost perfectly.

When I showed a pic of my SO (when we began dating) to one of my friends (I've known her for years), she replied with, "wow...this is exactly what you used to describe when we were younger."

It's the strangest thing.

 

[schttrj]

well, they say it works

 

[DismantleRepair]

It boils down to the fact that thought has to come before action. If you can't see yourself approaching, talking to girls, and getting their numbers - if you can't visualise it beforehand - then the action can't follow.

 

[SinJester]

It depends. I've read a lot of self-help stuff and if you try it in seduction it can and will get you in trouble unless you do it right. For examples if you just visalize one girl that you know, have fun with oneitus.

Books and material like that also tell you to focus on your goals, get passionate about them, and follow them with everything you can. If you put that straight into seduction it translates into desperation.

If you are just imaging succesfull approaches with imaginary girls that seems fine to me.

Thoughts?

 

[DarthAngel707]

Yea, sometimes I will practice in my head how I'm acting around girls, but when I actually do get around them I'm nervous. But it is a very unique concept that someone can just practice visualizing at home, and go out there and at least have some preparation. I guess nothing beats real experience though.

 

[slaog]

It certainly helps in some ways even if you don't believe in the law of atteaction etc it helps you prepare mentally.

 

[frisco]

Trust me it works but only so far, when you bring other people into the equation of manifesting free will is always in place... Do an experiment, visualize a girl then slowly start visualizing her looks.. Such as skin color, symmetrical face structure, go really deep into detail body shape everything then see her in a isolation location with you say a movie theater (one i used) a friends couch, your car, and visualize her laughing and touching you having a awesome time..... Then after about thirty minutes take those images freeze them wave goodbye and visualize them shattering... By no means should one person do just this to get women because its not until your actively going out that you may meet this girl but some success storys....

I was at whataburger around 2 am at night i got an urge to go eat, went in saw a cute Hispanic girl she came over to me said i was ****ing hott and gave me her number.... we ended up going to the movies we saw superbadd and made out the whole movies....first date and time to hang out

recently i visualize my perfect my girl Lover/mate wrote over 100 qualities i want in a women physically and personality wise then read it and visualized each qualities on my girl... i **** you not 2 weeks later i get a call from my bosses daughter who i only met when i was a weeee little kid one time.. she straight up says she thinks im hot and wants too hangout... now if shes my perfect girl or not I dunno only time can tell but this **** deff works especiallly if your in state and come from a place of abundance in all looks of life..

 

[Huffman]

I see what you mean, but: be careful not to overdo it.
Confidence, as is Attraction, is a very primal thing. Thinking too hard about every situation (overanalyzing) will probably create more insecurity.

Ideally, you should get to the point where you don't need to be prepared for her. Or her questions. You just tell her the truth, you do what you do, you are how you are. Ideally.

 

[slaog]

Trust me it works but only so far, when you bring other people into the equation of manifesting free will is always in place... Do an experiment, visualize a girl then slowly start visualizing her looks.. Such as skin color, symmetrical face structure, go really deep into detail body shape everything then see her in a isolation location with you say a movie theater (one i used) a friends couch, your car, and visualize her laughing and touching you having a awesome time..... Then after about thirty minutes take those images freeze them wave goodbye and visualize them shattering... By no means should one person do just this to get women because its not until your actively going out that you may meet this girl but some success storys....

I was at whataburger around 2 am at night i got an urge to go eat, went in saw a cute Hispanic girl she came over to me said i was ****ing hott and gave me her number.... we ended up going to the movies we saw superbadd and made out the whole movies....first date and time to hang out

recently i visualize my perfect my girl Lover/mate wrote over 100 qualities i want in a women physically and personality wise then read it and visualized each qualities on my girl... i **** you not 2 weeks later i get a call from my bosses daughter who i only met when i was a weeee little kid one time.. she straight up says she thinks im hot and wants too hangout... now if shes my perfect girl or not I dunno only time can tell but this **** deff works especiallly if your in state and come from a place of abundance in all looks of life..

By writing more qualities does that make it harder to attract a paticular woman?? The more qualities you write the more women you eliminate.