"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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virgins?

godjwood

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hey... iwas just wondering other guys opinions on this...
so im 20 and i want a virgin so bad. for a random hookup i coulndt care less. but a girl i wanna be with in the long run, i woudlnt be able to stand it if she had ****ed antoher guy.
i talked to a couple of my friends about it, one is impartial another feels the same way i do. what do you guys think? and at my age, is hope for a virgin gone?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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bobbob

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Originally posted by godjwood
hey... iwas just wondering other guys opinions on this...
so im 20 and i want a virgin so bad. for a random hookup i coulndt care less. but a girl i wanna be with in the long run, i woudlnt be able to stand it if she had ****ed antoher guy.
i talked to a couple of my friends about it, one is impartial another feels the same way i do. what do you guys think? and at my age, is hope for a virgin gone?

In a nutshell yes, you have no shot at meeting a virgin.


However, when you get a little older, this will stop being a big deal to you. Its your own insecurity that you're projecting onto other women.

peace
 

dyce

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Man let me tell you, I used to be exactly like you. I'm 18 but for years I always wanted a girl who was a virgin or else I wouldn't **** 'em. Now that I've had one, it's really not that great.

Men like to feel like they are the first one etc etc but it really won't matter once you're f**kin' her. As long as she hasn't had alot of partners, it's fine for a long term relationship.
 

DJDanny

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BS, my last GF was a virgin

This chick i met last week WAS a virgin ;)

they were both between 20-21, one a hb7.5 the other a hb8.5 as voted by me.

Virgins aren't much fun because they're too nervous/scared to tell you what they really want or really get into it the first few times.

As for a LTR virgin. 2 things. Personally I don't care if they're a virgin but it would be rather awkward i think if they've been nailing one of my friends. Other then that don't ask don't tell applies here.

Secondly, if she is a virgin its probably take you awhile to convince her to give it up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Aquatico

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Not to get off topic, but could someone link me to a thread that has a list of your abreviations?
 

Teen Spirit

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Don't be so quick with the negative replies, people.

If you're looking for a virgin at this age, you probably won't have much luck if you live in America or most Westernized countries, however, there are many places in the world where this is not so rare.

My girlfriend is from Poland and she is (was ;) ) a beautiful, 21-year old virgin.

I'm from England and the girls here totally suck, just like in America. I have never met such high-quality women until I started travelling. Slavic girls are my favourite.
 

johnmich

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Some ugly chav lass tried pickin me up while i was drunk :(

She talked to me about her (her life, how she lost her virginity at 13) :(

Then kept askin to kissed me and tried shovin her hand down my pants

I dont mind lasses if they are a bit forward but that was too forward.
Plus she was really ugly and fairly fat. :down:

In all honesty i dont wanna lose ma virginity like that

If you havent had the opportunity to lose it then its not really your fault i think.
 

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Don't do them, stay away from them....Unless you wanna get called in the middle of the night by a hysterical woman.

For example:

<Phone rings>
Sapiens: <Wakes up and looks at clock> “3:20AM”
Sapiens: <Picks up phone and answers> “Moshi, moshi.”
UnknownFemaleVoice: “Um, hello.”
Sapiens: <Still groggy> “Yes?”
UFV: <Sobs> “It’s me, I want to know if you love me? Because you didn’t tell me you love me. You know you are my first and it was really sweet <sob, sob> and I want to know if you care about me and if it was special for you? <sob>
Sapiens: <Still sleepy and clueless> “Um, who is this?”
UFV: <LOUD CRY> “Waaaaa, WAAAA, YOU BASTARD, I KNEW YOU DIDN’T CARE FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!

Needless to say I was in deep, sh!t….

-Sapiens
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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arlanda

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Originally posted by Sapiens

Sapiens: <Still sleepy and clueless> “Um, who is this?”
UFV: <LOUD CRY> “Waaaaa, WAAAA, YOU BASTARD, I KNEW YOU DIDN’T CARE FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh boy ;) Did she call you like a few months after you f-ed her asking if you love her?
 

Sapiens

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Originally posted by arlanda
Oh boy ;) Did she call you like a few months after you f-ed her asking if you love her?
Actually it was a wrong number (at least that is my story, and I AM sticking to it)............ I don't do such things. :D

-Sapiens
 
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Finding a virgin can be tough but it's definitely not impossible. I've been with my virgin gf for 7 months. Your best bet for finding a virgin at your age would be finding a highly religious girl...so you'd probably find most of those at a bible study or at church. Having a relationship with a virgin is kind of tough at first b/c they're a bit cold and nervous when it comes to physical stuff, but if you're willing to be patient it can have its rewards. Though it's tough to coax a virgin into giving it up, you can often convince them to mess around, and if you're the first one to make them come, they're stuck to you like glue and will want you bad. Being with a virgin also puts your mind a bit more at ease as they are very conventional and conservative, and the likelyhood of them screwing around is less.
 

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Yeah dude i feel for you man but now i am at the point where I will be with girls have fun, but i will never be in a serous relationship with a girl unless her past is few then mine. I dont like to speak in absolutes but thats what I feel. I am going to start sarging at church and see what i can find. Be careful to because girls like that also could end up yousing sex as a tool and a way to manipulate you instead of yousing it as a way to share love. It took me a long time to figure out that sex is ok. I grew up in a strict house hold. But I realized that their is nothing wrong to have sex with a woman if you respect her and care for her with unconditonal love. So i think sex gets a bad rap becasue lot of what the church says is that its self-indulgence and nothing else. And theirs alot of guys out their who just use girls for sex and nothing else. But its how you go about doing it that really matters. I think of it as making love instead of just fu*king a girl. I was dating a pretty cute girl 8.5 and as are realtionship deterated i lost interest in having sex and before we broke up i was tired of having sex with her and it turned into just fu*king instead. hope i can help
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Centaurion

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Why do you want virgins? They s*ck beyond belief...It takes forever to get in their pants, then it's like f*cking a corps, she can't take it all in, you have to be careful and oops there she goes bleeding... It's too much stress to be worth the hassle.

I'll take a 25 year old professional slut that knows all the kinky sh*t any day over a virgin.


On the other though, it would be so cool to scoop up a 18 year old virgin and shape her into the ultimate sex-kitten.
 

ScrewIt

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there are still virgins left. surprisingly but yes.

But you'll probably have a better chance finding a match with the girl who's religious, but dont think you're getting anything easy!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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