"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TheEnergizer

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hey guys, so so far my rule about losing my virginity has been that i would like to lose my v-card on another virgin. you know, cause i can only lose it on one girl, so you only get one chance to experience virgin-on-virgin sex. personally i think that would be pretty awesome, cuz itd be a first time for both of us. and you only get that chance once.

so i'm wondering is this a realistic goal? i'm a freshman so, i dont know for sure, but im guessing theres still a good number of cute virgins (i aint takin some ugly chicks virginity) out there. i'm pretty good looking, and i get plenty of attention from girls. i can also safely say my game is slightly better than average for my age, thanks to this site of course!

so should i keep looking for cute virgins, or just go do it, and then come back to virgins if/when i get that chance?(ill have experience and getting a virgin will be much easier) my standards for virgins are average and up, while non-virgin are 7 or 8 and up, because for them i wont have that chance i mentioned.

of course i know chances will get slimmer as time goes by, so by, say, junior year ill probly just say screw it and go do the next good looking chick i get the chance with. cuz there probly wont be very many cute virgins by then, and theyll be pretty hard to get anyway, or lying. of course i want to do some virgin some time in my life, i dont want to lose that chance.

SOOooO, you guys, was your first time with a virgin or not? cute/average/ugly? how old were you? and have you ever done a virgin, or not? how good are your dj skills and looks?(obviously the best ones get all the virgins)

also, what do you think my chances are at finding one next year(3 more weeks isnt much for me to work with right now) or the following years, and any other info about dealling with virgin chicks, like getting them to give their v-card to you, would be much appreciated.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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Just proceed as normal. I lost mine to a girl who was cute and wasn't a virgin. It's not as if you can filter out all the women who've had sex; they don't wear signs on their forehead saying "virgin."
 

Analyzeit

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I just kind of said my opinion about this to some guy on a different thread but your story is quite a bit different.

I'm going to say keep striving for good looking virgins if you want, if anything i want you too but then again i personally gave up on that and have no regrets but i have quite a different attitude to that kind of stuff then others.

Yes you can still find virgins out there at your age but the problem is as you said a few are losing it and soon there will be more girls out there keen for some sex with you!

If you really do care about how you lose it, then do care about it.

It is a realistic goal, but week by week it's going to get harder and harder and one night some non-virgin girl will put it in your face and you'll take it in your horny rage haha

If you think your like what i said in the paragraph above don't waste your time having this goal, this happened to me and i gave up and kind of regretted it for awhile then well what could you do really I gave up..

If you think you can pass god's horrible test above, keep that goal. It's good to have high standards they only push you harder (but don't get desperate!)

My first time as said above wasn't a virgin and she wasn't cute, but quite good looking 7-8.

And i have also took a girls virginity (14 almost 15 old) and I'm only average looks, but i take this Dj Stuff pretty to heart. The virgin girls also seem to be very "clingy" so always something to watch out for, she only just got over me haha.

The best ones don't get all the virgins because they try it's because they are natural Dj/Pua's there stuff works with all chicks and there just lucky to pick up those virgins.

As for dealing/pulling with virgins, as they get older they tend to be the shy girls that come out with virgin and one tip for against the shy girls that i've used a lot is be the one to make all the first move, say the first cheesy things because she hasn't got the balls, but then rejection is always a little harder and you hardly get any signs she's interested and it's always a challenge to flirt with a chick who shows some if any signs.

One thing i will say about this against saving yourself for finding a virgin is that people become more confident the more girls they've banged and girls live on confidence.

So it's all your choice if you care about it care about it if you don't, don't care.... Simple. There's no rule on here that says you can't decide who and when you fvck, so do what you think is best we can't decide for you only give our advice or opinion
 
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Kidd

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dude youre taking this virgin thing way too seriously. just stop thinking about being a virgin and game girls as you normally would, and have sex if it gets you there.

thinking about it too much will cause problems.
 

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thanks for the advice analyzeit, i think i've made my decision.

i think i'll just get the first time thing out of the way early, virgin or not. still has to be cute/hot though.

that way ill have more experience than most guys my age, and i'll be way ahead of most guys when it comes to virgins. because after that virgins will probly be easier to get because i'll be experienced.

and plus like you said there going away quickly every week, so the earlier i get this over with, the more virgins there are still around, which is good. at least i will get a chance to do a young virgin in my life, rather than waiting for it too long and missing my chance completely because most will be gone by that time.

i see now why some people believe in no sex until marriage.... but really... is it that worth it? nah

thanks for the advice guys
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheEnergizer said:
thanks for the advice analyzeit, i think i've made my decision.

i think i'll just get the first time thing out of the way early, virgin or not. still has to be cute/hot though.

that way ill have more experience than most guys my age, and i'll be way ahead of most guys when it comes to virgins. because after that virgins will probly be easier to get because i'll be experienced.

and plus like you said there going away quickly every week, so the earlier i get this over with, the more virgins there are still around, which is good. at least i will get a chance to do a young virgin in my life, rather than waiting for it too long and missing my chance completely because most will be gone by that time.

i see now why some people believe in no sex until marriage.... but really... is it that worth it? nah

thanks for the advice guys
I laughed at how many times I read virgin in that post (not at you with you).

Don't worry so much about it man. Besides I've heard sex with virgins sucks cause they hurt and bleed and you can't really have sex (unless they've already broken their hymen or w/e).
 

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Virginity really doesn't matter. It's overrated. Just bang the next girl that you want to and be done with it.
 

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It's not totally unrealistic. I lost my virginity to a virgin. But it was because I remained in a steady relationship with her for a very long time and when she was completely comfortable and ready, we had sex. That's what you'll have to do. If she's cute, and a virgin, obviously she's not looking to just throw it away. And as a guy, you have to make sure the girl is ready and you aren't taking advantage of her because for girls, giving it up is often a big deal, especially girls who retain their virginity for a long time. It's just the way it is. So, really, be courteous. If you are just looking for a lay, don't shoot for v-cards. But is it a realistic goal...yes, with dedication.
 

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Oh and for the record, having sex with virgins is like I believe another poster said, not all its cracked up to be. They do hurt, they can bleed, and you might find yourself wondering if it can even fit...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Capt.Jack Sparrow

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hahahaha.. ohhh man I forgot what goes through the mind of a highschool kid. I havent been on here in ages..

Kid, you sure you want a virgin? ****, they get attached dude. Plus most wont give it up unless you're in a relationship with them and for a while too. The ones who are already experianced will show you a hell of a good time. Virgins are dull and boring.. heres my story

I was 15 and bearly going into my sophmore year when I lost mine.. to one of my many many ex gfs too and she was a virgin as well. and shes pretty damn hot and we still f*ck here and there to this day. I was with her for 6 months prior to it.. Yea it hurt her. Yea she bled, and yea she didnt want to finish cause she was in so much damn pain.

Don't stress it kid, you'll get your whistle wet sooner or later, just play it cool and keep talking to chicks and as someone else said don't think about it too much. It all happens naturally.

Lost my virginity at 15, 5 years later im 20 and I've fu*ked 16 chicks and hooked up with countless others. Just be smooth and patient don't be desperate. Relax bro :up:
 
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