"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Virgins give advice on how to get laid?

prairiedog24

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This thread is dumb. Advice is either good or it isn't, the person giving it is irrelevant. Igetit (for example) gives damn good advice. I couldn't care less how many times he's done it.

I'm a virgin, I've admitted it before. I'm neither ashamed nor particularly proud... it is what it is. Yes it's because I believe sex is important enough to wait until marriage for. Yes it's because there has never been a divorce or unhappy marriage in my family on EITHER SIDE as far back as we remember so I figure "why mess with what's been working." Yes it's because it's not very gosh darn hard not to if you're focusing on self-improvement stuff anyway.

And yes, I've had at least one incredibly hot girl ask me to sleep with her (directly once, indirectly 2 or 3 other times). She was a 10 folks, and a girl I was very taken with and had spent a lot of time with. I told her I would love to, but she knows me and knows why I can't. Does half of me slam my head into the wall thinking I'm an idiot when I think about it? Yes. I'm a guy afterall. But, I decided a particular lifestyle is good for me, and I'm sticking with it for the moment.

Doesn't mean there isn't a ton of useful info on this board for me... and you know what... it doesn't mean that I necessarily have bad opinions about relationships either. Heck, if the question is "how do you stick it in right? then yes, maybe sex matters. For everything else, not so much.

This isn't rocket science.

Edit: I'm dumb. I didn't read the entire thread until now, so I didn't realize it was a lame ass troll. My bad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Black Dog

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prairiedog24 said:
This thread is dumb. Advice is either good or it isn't, the person giving it is irrelevant. Igetit (for example) gives damn good advice. I couldn't care less how many times he's done it.

I'm a virgin, I've admitted it before. I'm neither ashamed nor particularly proud... it is what it is. Yes it's because I believe sex is important enough to wait until marriage for. Yes it's because there has never been a divorce or unhappy marriage in my family on EITHER SIDE as far back as we remember so I figure "why mess with what's been working." Yes it's because it's not very gosh darn hard not to if you're focusing on self-improvement stuff anyway.

And yes, I've had at least one incredibly hot girl ask me to sleep with her (directly once, indirectly 2 or 3 other times). She was a 10 folks, and a girl I was very taken with and had spent a lot of time with. I told her I would love to, but she knows me and knows why I can't. Does half of me slam my head into the wall thinking I'm an idiot when I think about it? Yes. I'm a guy afterall. But, I decided a particular lifestyle is good for me, and I'm sticking with it for the moment.

Doesn't mean there isn't a ton of useful info on this board for me... and you know what... it doesn't mean that I necessarily have bad opinions about relationships either. Heck, if the question is "how do you stick it in right? then yes, maybe sex matters. For everything else, not so much.

This isn't rocket science.

Edit: I'm dumb. I didn't read the entire thread until now, so I didn't realize it was a lame ass troll. My bad.
Either way haha that was a very humble post dude. Respect!
 
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