I hear that some girls find it more attractive if you are a virgin or even prude, is this true? Im a virgin what do i say if a real experienced chick askes me if im a virgin? or if another virgin chick askes me if im a virgin?.. also this girl asked me about the girls ive dated should i tell her that
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RaWBLooD
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uh ya girls will get confused if a guy shows attraction in them but does not want sex. itll work short term.Originally posted by theNEWDJ
I hear that some girls find it more attractive if you are a virgin or even prude, is this true? Im a virgin what do i say if a real experienced chick askes me if im a virgin? or if another virgin chick askes me if im a virgin?.. also this girl asked me about the girls ive dated should i tell her that
just tell her ur a virgin.. theres no point of lying to her. and if u actually ended up in bed with her and didnt know what to do she'll prolly think ur the worse person to have sex with. so just tell them u are a virgin. its just like u asking a girl if shes a virgin.
Female- So are u a virgin?
Me- Ill tell you if u answer one question for me
Female-Ok
Me- is it true that girls have fantasy about being with guys who are virgins
Female- yah it would be cool knowing i was someones first (if shes not a virgin)
Me-O well in that case yah iam
Female-I wouldnt no ive never had sex before (Virging Response)
Me- Thats cool cuase i am too
Me- Ill tell you if u answer one question for me
Female-Ok
Me- is it true that girls have fantasy about being with guys who are virgins
Female- yah it would be cool knowing i was someones first (if shes not a virgin)
Me-O well in that case yah iam
Female-I wouldnt no ive never had sex before (Virging Response)
Me- Thats cool cuase i am too
what is the big deal with being a virgin on these boards?
if she asks you if you're a virgin, answer honestly. feel free to joke around and not give her any information about girls you've dated/hooked up with (that isn't important and not answering builds your mystery), but if you avoid the subject of sex then you'll eventually look insecure when she does find out that you still hold the V card.
if she asks you if you're a virgin, answer honestly. feel free to joke around and not give her any information about girls you've dated/hooked up with (that isn't important and not answering builds your mystery), but if you avoid the subject of sex then you'll eventually look insecure when she does find out that you still hold the V card.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
its not a big deal, when the time comes just whisper in the girls ear (i don't really know what i'm doing here so help me out)
It sounds loserish but girls appriciate the honestly, and really who cares? Its just you and her and its not like she's going to laugh at you, she will help you out and think more of you.
Jeez first times are very ****ty. When i lost my vcard i was so nervous it took a while to even get wood, i think back on that its so funny.
We all have had our two pump chump moments also, all it takes is practice, just like any other acquired skill.
It sounds loserish but girls appriciate the honestly, and really who cares? Its just you and her and its not like she's going to laugh at you, she will help you out and think more of you.
Jeez first times are very ****ty. When i lost my vcard i was so nervous it took a while to even get wood, i think back on that its so funny.
We all have had our two pump chump moments also, all it takes is practice, just like any other acquired skill.
arutha
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I've seen lots of threads around here (and the main forum) saying exactly that though... They won't if they know you're a virgin.Originally posted by Phat
i know guys... wats the big freakin deal with this... Just tell her straight up that your a virgin. jeez. I think like some guys will think that she wont have sex with them if u tell them that ur a virgin. but thats not true. so get that out of ur minds. that just AFC thinking lol..
Its probably different if you are only 15 or something, but 17 upwards (I'm 18 pretty soon) might come off as a bit strange..
No way I'm going to openly admit it, but I won't lie either. Just crack jokes about it and let the topic drift off elsewhere.
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