Virgin pleads for sex!!

[ANIRBAN]

Hi guys I did the C+F attitude and then went all the way until in the bed she told me she is a virgin and stopped. Then the next day I broke up as she was offering an incomplete relationship also she is a strong woman raised by a single mother. Now she is pleading me to have sex with her and tells me that she will change and be good..

Here there are two issues: one, she will have the leverage if I do it and second she will fall in love with me after that. At the same time I told her we are not compatible and we will end in a break up but still she inisist and ask me out on a date many times..I stopped seeing her so now we chat..sheis heavily onto me ..should I go for the kill or shold I look for a non virgin lady. Overall her character is okay, she shares the bill, and not a slut..help please

 

[Engetsu]

Hit it. If you don't, someone else will, and you're already knee-deep in it.

 

[SDBmania]

So, you originally broke up with her because she is a virgin? Then you feel like you need a sexually physical relationship as well as an emotional relation ship? Then, you should not force her to give up her virginity. You need to respect her choice. If you can't control your sexual urge or live without sex, then I'd suggest you find someone who is sexually active. It is obvious that you two have conflicting positions on something that is very important.

 

[Big-J]

Tap that ass.

JUST DO IT.


You need to respect her choice.

Her choice is now to have sex with him. Respect that choice, and have sex with her

 

[ANIRBAN]

The package issue

She told me that she is looking for a marroage package !! that dropped my **** by thousand fathoms..but still I can manage to agree her on a relationship with no marroage arrangement and then go for the kill. I just dont want to do it in the heat of the nite..just want to take a matured approach and talk about it, clear all doubts and then do it..what do u thinkDJs ??

 

[SDBmania]

Originally posted by Big-J
You need to respect her choice.

Her choice is now to have sex with him. Respect that choice, and have sex with her

Sounds to me that she is just saying that, because she does not want to lose him.

 

[PeeGee]

It's not your fault she's suddenly making stupid choices. Though you might run the risk of her going "I don't want to have sex any more" sometime down the road. So you may have to dump her again, which will bring up her IL, blah blah. Is it worth your time?

 

[disciple]

First of all, how do you know she is really a virgin? Because she told you? Never trust a woman. She might have been the freak of the week up until a month ago and decided to "take it slow". Bottomline, don't over analyse this sh*t, just hit and enjoy it while you have it.

 

[Big-J]

Originally posted by SDBmania
Sounds to me that she is just saying that, because she does not want to lose him.

Still her choice

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Originally posted by SDBmania
You need to respect her choice.

It is so like an AFC to place the girl on a pedistal above the man. Her choice is bound to change one way or the other depending on the situation due to her fickleness as a female.

Although I do agree that if she does not want to put out, he should look elsewhere. But she said that she wants sex now, so why is it that you are trying to defend her by saying that she might not really mean it, SDBmania?... Who cares.

And if that is the case, how is she any different than any other woman who might put out for him anywhere else?. Perhaps they don't really mean it either! Are you going to defend them as well?-- Grow up.


Men do the picking, women do the choosing. Looks like she made her choice already. Respect it.

 

[LikRetsam]

Sexist morons!

I don't think you should tap it because she wasn't ready. you dropped her and she came running telling you she would. If she did, she would regret it. Have some respect, if not for her, atleast for yourself.

 

[Oxide]

She is willing to let you hit it just to keep you around... if this is all you need for picking the girl for yourself, i feel sorry for you.

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by Oxide
She is willing to let you hit it just to keep you around... if this is all you need for picking the girl for yourself, i feel sorry for you.

Fugging A! Thank you Oxide.

For the record guys, there is no such thing as 'just sex' Women trade sex for love. By taking the one, you're implying the other. She's offering her sex in order to get him to love her. He knows he doesn't and doesn't care to. By going forward you only incite a chain of events that amount to little more than a recipe for disaster. Have some honor and some sense of future self-preservation and bounce.

Oh, also guys. Legally her choice is considered invalid if she makes it under extreme duress and that alone should be enough to prove the fallacy of your 'it's her choice' argument. Moreover on a moral level, if you've broken up with her because she won't put out then you've proven how highly you think of respecting her decision to wait, so how are you staking to claim the moral high-ground here? They're called standards guys, get some.

-Cyrano

 

[Hot Ice]

Say that her v-card doesn't have enough credit for marriage.




EDIT:

Damn CyranoDeBergerac!!!
I've had a motto just like your signatures "anonymous warrior poet"!

Damn I'm good. I'm a ****ing warrior!
RRRAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGHHH!!!!

 

[Kidquick]

How old is she? Most women over 20 who are virgins should be approached with extreme caution, because let's face it, the days of remaining chaste until marriage have been over for quite some time - if you get into a relationship with this girl, expect conflict on more levels than just sex...

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Originally posted by Hot Ice
Say that her v-card doesn't have enough credit for marriage.

Niiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiice!

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Originally posted by Engetsu
Hit it. If you don't, someone else will, and you're already knee-deep in it.

Well said.

Unless she's underage... In which case, forget about it. Move on. Find someone else who might not really mean it, but who is old enough to be held accountable for her own actions (as if a woman like that exists).

It is best to stick with mature women. But then ask yourself, how did they gain their maturity in the first place?...

 

[SDBmania]

Originally posted by Big-J
Still her choice

Yes I suppose your right. Also, I didn't think about the possibillity that she is lying.

But cowboy, I have grown up! And I am a RAFC, not a AFC. Just to clarify. But, you don't seem to understand that this is a clear cut case here. She is afraid of losing him, so she will put out. I may not be a phycology major, but it is obvious that she is looking for love. It is of course foolish to use sex as a weapon to get love, but it will cause pain for both of them. Remember, women don't think like us. They tend to be more emotional and we intellectual, so that's why we look at sex differently. Although, I must say, I don't understand why guys feel this overwhelming need to have sex. I don't nessisarily think there is anything wrong with it, but he should look for a woman who just wants a One Night Stand type of deal and not an emontional relationship. Unless he wants love.......

Oh, and I don't put women on a pedestal anymore.

 

[[look]aRhino]

Don't forget man, if she does infact want marriage then you know if you do agree thats where shes heading whether you have agreed or not.

So watch out, maybe she thinks that having a kid would make you marry her. Maybe she just forgot to take the pill for a day, or thirty.

Just be careful man, whatever you choose.

Rhino

 

[Spike_the_cowboy]

Originally posted by SDBmania
Oh, and I don't put women on a pedestal anymore.

Glad to hear it. Oh, and the name is Spike.