Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Virgin HB 10 Jessica Alba look alike.......NEED ADVICE

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Ok guys need advice urgently this HB10 that looks like jessica alba. I talk to her in person and on the net i know her from school she was 2 years below me. Today i was talkign to her on the net and she said this:

HER SAYS:
do u have artificial love for any1
ME SAYS:
whats that mean
HER SAYS:
lol what a dummy fake love
ME SAYS:
what do u mean by that do i ahve fake love for any1?
HER SAYS:
Fake love do u have it?
ME SAYS:
whats that mean?
HER SAYS:
dont worry
ME SAYS:
NO tell me EXPLAIN what it means
HER SAYS:
OMG
HER SAYS:
are you stupid or are u a idiot
ME SAYS:
Both so tell em what it means
HER SAYS:
OK
say you pretend to like me
thats artifical love
ME SAYS:
nooo what kind of a question is that
ME SAYS:
do you ahve fake love for some1
HER SAYS:
Nah
HER SAYS:
why dont u
ME SAYS:
cause i ahve real luv for someone jking
HER SAYS:
dont joke
ME SAYS:
why
HER SAYS:
cause i know you wanna say soemthign to me but your to scared
ME:
what do i wanna say and im scared of saying?
HER:
i dunno that u like some1 and u wanna tell me but ur scared

OK so yeh thats the maint part ...................then i said to her later on do you think i like you? and shes like..... nooo silly thats not it.....then she goes offline.. she keeps sayign she thinks i like sum1 but when i ask if she thinks i liek her she says NO........and yeh shes a virgin never had a bf HB10 looks liek JESSICA ALBA....so yeh any insight into what she ment?.....

P.S thats not the actual convo i just mae it smaller otherwise itd take long to read
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Here's another kid posting an MSN transcript... :rolleyes:

Mate, as soon as you have doubt and you resort to analysing crappy net conversations, then things are not looking good.

Furthermore, you have placed her way high up on that pedestal (you're obsessed with labelling her Jessica Alba looks) which shows us that you have ONEitis!! :eek:

It's time for you to find some new chicks..
 

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Look thats not the point i dont need u to tell me i got oneitis all i want to know is when a girl says somethign liek that what is she gettign at. i have a pretty good idea but i wanted someone elses advice ..................OK
 

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Well it sounds to me like you're letting her fvck you around abit if she can call you stupid and an idiot and you don't say a thing.
 

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GOD i shuld ahve pasted the whole convo so u guys wuld get it............who cares about the being pushed around **** im not being pushed around this convo is cutdown alot..... OK .......lol...... can use answer the orignal question?....and i dont have Oneitis i just want to know
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have no idea what she means and I don't care, and neither should you.
Why the hell do you care so much? You start pressing her so much on what she means, she'll sense your neediness. Just like I'm sensing on here. All I hear is "what does she mean?? what does she mean??? someone plz tell me i'm going crazy!!". All I'm seeing on your dialogue with her is "Cmon plz plz plz tell me!!!"
And she does insult you repeatedly and you just sit there and take it.
 

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She wants you to say you like her.

She doesn't want you. Look at you, you're a ****ing toy.
 

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OMFG are u guys fkin stupid i ask u 1 fking question u give me a lecture she fckin insults me there like i fckin said that is revised alot ok in the actual convo i didnt let her get away with that i gave her sht back OK.......... i just want to know what she ment by this because im the kind of person that needs to know eveything and its gettign on my nerves OK.... now if u dont have anythign constructive to say and all you want to do is say Sht about how she insults me when you havent read the full version of the convo then dont ****ign bother................anyone with anythign constructive to add do it???........if u want to give me a lecture the fck off
 

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
OMFG are u guys fkin stupid i ask u 1 fking question u give me a lecture she fckin insults me there like i fckin said that is revised alot ok in the actual convo i didnt let her get away with that i gave her sht back OK.......... i just want to know what she ment by this because im the kind of person that needs to know eveything and its gettign on my nerves OK.... now if u dont have anythign constructive to say and all you want to do is say Sht about how she insults me when you havent read the full version of the convo then dont ****ign bother................anyone with anythign constructive to add do it???........if u want to give me a lecture the fck off
I am giving you constructive criticism. It is this: You are being way too needy. You obsess about everything she says and what it means. This makes you needy and she will sense it. You have to chill and not give a fvck what she says and what she means. You're acting like the guy who gets laid with chicks all the time to her right? Well, would a guy who has 10 other chicks on the side be so bothered with what one girl means when she says some crap on an internet conversation? Would a guy who is doing women all the time let someone like her get on his nerves?
I dont care if you're the 'kind of guy who needs to know everything'. The more you analyse, the more you obsess, and the more you'll see her slip out of your grasp.
 

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OK well thats a good point .......... i just wanted to know if shes tryign to tell me she likes me thats all......im not realy intrested ind dating her shes one of those virgin till marrige girls i rather be fuking girls im still only young.......so yehhh.... btu ur makign a good point
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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IrReSiStIbLe

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Originally posted by wolfie
I am giving you constructive criticism. It is this: You are being way too needy. You obsess about everything she says and what it means. This makes you needy and she will sense it. You have to chill and not give a fvck what she says and what she means. You're acting like the guy who gets laid with chicks all the time to her right? Well, would a guy who has 10 other chicks on the side be so bothered with what one girl means when she says some crap on an internet conversation? Would a guy who is doing women all the time let someone like her get on his nerves?
I dont care if you're the 'kind of guy who needs to know everything'. The more you analyse, the more you obsess, and the more you'll see her slip out of your grasp.
Agreed.

Listen to Wolfie, he knows his sh1t, i would have said the same thing...
 
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