"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys im 19 my gf is 17 right now she lives with one of my friends... My long lost cousin whom i never met in my life came down last night and partied with us... Then my gf took a walk with him, for about two hours last night.... And i asked her last night if she wanted to come to my house and chill today and she said oh well " John Asked me" If i wanted to go and chill with him in mechanicvill....I was like fine w.e do what you want your a big girl.... She says ok are you mad" I told her i wasent madd.... Maybe that was a bad move but then i asked her if i could go chill with a bunch of girls she said she wouldent be madd.. I know she wouldent do anything with him and if she did id kick her ass to the curb and prolly break his face....... I need some advice fellow dj's why is her behavior this way....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounds a little shady to me. There's really nothing you can do about it. What's going to happen is going to happen. If she's being 100% honest with you then fine, she is. But my gut feelings tells me that she's attempting to get in the sack with him. Don't let yourself be let down too much.
 
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HollowHorizon said:
I know she wouldent do anything with him and if she did id kick her ass to the curb and prolly break his face.......
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Chump much?

How about not concentrating so much on her... just a thought.
 
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She's your GIRLFRIEND? And she's a virgin?....:whistle: Why aint YOU sticking your d!ck in her pvssy already?! What the hell you waitin for? No wonder she's seeing other guys... a female needs her daily dose of d!ck. Man the fvck up and fvck her already.
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because SHE'S SEVENTEEN HE'S NINETEEN ERGO RAPE A.K.A. NO SEX

Or are you saying grown men and under age girls are OK?
 
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Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
because SHE'S SEVENTEEN HE'S NINETEEN ERGO RAPE A.K.A. NO SEX

Or are you saying grown men and under age girls are OK?
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I dunno about NY, but in my state the age of consent is 17 but then there's a 4 year clause or something below that age...

Anyways, I'd hardly call a 19 year old kid a "grown man".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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