"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i need to know what to do,

ive been seeing this real hot chick, shes got the perfect body shes really sociable, man shes a dream girl, her ass is the best...

ive been djing for a while an the last time we met up, well its pretty obvious shes still a V.. I dont know how to play it, i dont really want to take it as slow as they like it to take it, you know, there like they want there fist time to be speacial...

i just wana seduce her man, i dont want her to fall in love..
shall i "ljbf" her before she gets to attactched or carry on with her, she is a real beauty tho.. catch
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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no we arent a couple, i dont know if i want that,

but i just feel like i have to keep djing her,leting her fall deeper into me and its because shes so... hot...,
i dont have a problem with her i think its just me..

ime not all that suave deep down, ive got morals and values for women.. so i dont know if i want to take a girls V.. Ive already done that (an it takes to long,man) what should i do, what about her cute ass.. should i be a heartless player an steal her innocent virginity, maybe ive got totally the wrong idea about this.. :(
 

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catch you're going about this the wrong way.
if you truely are DJ, then you wouldnt necessarily feel bad about taking her virginity.
hell man, i've banged 3 virigin girls, and let me tell ya, (at least to me, the sex with them seemed so much better)- maybe it's cuz i know that i took their innocennce and corrupted them. haha

but if you really feel bad about doing this to her, then you gotta ask yaself a few questions:
1) is this girl worth my time and effort
2) do i want sex
3) do i want an STR or LTR

if u answer yes to #1, #3, then take ya time, and work ya way into her pant.
if you just want sex, then turn off ya feelings monitor and take her v. and be done w/ it.

one of the virgins i fvcked thought it meant something, and it did (a good time). but she wanted more, and i didnt.
so watch out for that
good luck

btw- ljbf her will probably make her want you more cuz she thinks she cant have you
 

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You gotta set up the entire situation as if its her idea to have sex. You need to come off with a "I can walk away from this attitude and not feel bad, since I am the experienced one here" attitude. She needs to realize that you'd be doing her a favor because you are the experienced one.

The key to this is to make her realize that if she's gonna do it with someone, it might as well be with someone she really has the hots for; so you better play the whole thing right, from beginning to end. As mentioned before, also need to touch her the right way, and smell her good, my personal favorite weapon.
 

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maybe you should stop trying to read her so much and flat out ask her if she is. It shouldn't be that hard, in fact i hung out with this girl last night that knows i like her more than a friend and she brought up sexual pasts, (played it VERY VERY careful). But you don't need to be uptight and ackward about it, just fvcking ask her man.... it will do wonders, and who knows.... you may be pondering over this for no reason. just my $.02
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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just go for it man, be man, she will loose it anyway.....better with you!
 
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