"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Virgin girl shows interest, Attention ***** or Hard to Get?

trivvium

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This chick i met a few weeks ago in college started to show huge interest in me. it seems like we really hit it off whenever we hang out, people starts to tell us to "stop making love" whenever we flirt.

However, whenever i invite her for some hanging out alone, she becomes very hesitant. For example, one time she would not sit down in the icecream place to eat with me and was in a rush to take the ice cream back to her dorm.

Meanwhile, she would spent a whole day watching movies/tv shows with another dude (my friend, whom she met at the same time as she met me) who is a friendzoned whiteknight (she rejected him after he asked her to hookup).

I first assume that she knows things would go down if she spent time alone with me for too long.

Then after 2-3 weeks of the same thing I start to wonder if she really is just a tease/attention ***** kind of girl, since she is very hot (8.5/10 in my book and my friends agreed), and whether or not i was friendzoned. So i started to observe how she is with other dudes, although i dont see any hardcore flirting like she is having with me.

I started to play cold and acted nonchalant when i see her around for a couple days, but she always tries to find a chance to touch me and eye **** me (i try not to flirt back).

While i am debating whether to cut contact with her yesterday, i found out from a girl that she's a virgin. I was shocked because she is very sexual kind of a girl who is not afraid to talk about sex openly.

I have repeated grabbed/slapped her ass and apparently she told her friends that she "liked it".

I need your advice on how to deal with this girl. What is she trying to do here? Does the whole virgin thing changes the whole game quite a bit? Should i give it more time?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Doesn't matter what she is. It does matter what she is doing though. She won't hang out with you 1 on 1 = she is not interested in you. Charge it!

What assets does this girl bring to the table that you want to deal with her bs?
 
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