"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Virgin Escalation

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Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SPEAK said:
Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
She is a tramp. Why do you say "Virgin"? Sucking a bunch of dudes' d--- is about as trampy as you can get. Nothing virgin about any of this.
 

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BigJimbo said:
She is a tramp. Why do you say "Virgin"? Sucking a bunch of dudes' d--- is about as trampy as you can get. Nothing virgin about any of this.

No I am the first person she has given head to. She just thinks its gross and she has given it three times and they have all been to me.
 

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^^ Yeap

Just escalate,next time maybe stop with the "I dont wanna pressure you" ****.
Go into you room or wherever u guys go and start geting hot get her clothes off her panties OFF and the rest is history.

And im a bit shocked that she gave you head NAKED and you guys didnt ****.I mean if all she wanted was to give you head that **** wouldve happened with clothes on or a few clothes on but not NAKED.

Just **** her dude dont think to much about it.If she is really into you ( which by giving you head naked indicates she is) she will **** you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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alright guys I have just never gone ahead and fvcked someone. I dont really know how to go about it, should I just go grab a condom and put it on? Or should I ask her if she is ready?


I am 18 and she is 17 by the way if that helps make the fact that she is a virgin more believable?
 

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A Virgin who just gets naked and blows someone?Yeah....right.
Its not about experience dude.You just keep a condom ready and just escalate to the point where you have to put it on.There is not rocket science in ****ing.

I dont really understand the "I have just never gone ahead and fvcked someone" line, like its a crime or something or something that is very strange.
Plus if she knows its your first time she can help you put it in and stuff.( In case you have forgotten since the first time you were Drunk as Fvck ).
 

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A Virgin who just gets naked and blows someone?Yeah....right.
You guys do realise he never said she was a virgin right...just letting everyone know.

Look, next time you guys get naked with eachother just grab her and put her on her back. BE GENTLE DONT RAPE HER. Look her in the eyes, don't say anything. This will let her know what your intentions are, women love i contact remember. Keep a condom near by the longer you take getting one and putting it on the more her interest in the act will go down.'

Seriously man it isn't that hard to do this you are just nervous because she has given you crap about the bj.

Heres a thought, why don't you give her some head and then just got on top of her and proceed to do the deed, shell like, just lick the **** alot its easy.
 

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^^^^ Thanks for the first answer to my question.


And thats how I ended up getting her wet enough to give me a bj by giving her head. So you're just saying let her know through your eyes and then pop the condom on without saying anything.

And she is 17 and a virgin to clear things up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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