"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Virgin Escalation

SPEAK

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Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jack Wealthy

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SPEAK said:
Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
Ask her if she wants you to get a condom. If she says yes, put it on and interprate it as saying yes to sex.
If she does give you LMR before head, tell her that you two can control yourselves. I like to add in "You're not gonna get me that easy." Then kiss her quite. Otherwise she might say something like "You're not gonna get me that easy" right backat me:)
 
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