"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Virgin Escalation

SPEAK

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Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jack Wealthy

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SPEAK said:
Ok there is this girl I have been having a thing with for a while now. She has a very high IL and I have fun messing around with her.

Yesterday she came over and I escalated her to the point where she was completely naked and giving me head. She doesnt like giving head (as all girls say right) even though that was her third time giving it to me.

My question is how do I go for the f close, do I just whip a condom out and put it on? Because she always has LMR with giving head and I had to do the whole "thats okay I dont want you to feel pressured into doing anything" speech twice in order for her to give me head.

Where do I go from here? I am not a virgin but I've only had sex once and I was really drunk.
Ask her if she wants you to get a condom. If she says yes, put it on and interprate it as saying yes to sex.
If she does give you LMR before head, tell her that you two can control yourselves. I like to add in "You're not gonna get me that easy." Then kiss her quite. Otherwise she might say something like "You're not gonna get me that easy" right backat me:)
 
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