One on One
Master Don Juan
Anyone up for making this forum the VIP Lounge? We can PM respected posters about this.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VIP Lounge
- Thread starter One on One
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Not anymore he isn't...
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
y don't you make a different lounge for "VIP" some people still actually want to learn SS or brush up on it, and it'd be selfish to take the board and make it your own
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
however im up for making it like a secret hide out spot that newbies won't infect because the only way they'd find out about it is by doing a search 
.... i'm working on a sign right now....here it is
.... i'm working on a sign right now....here it isBut don't kick people out, just make sure they don't spread the word or freepost or anything stupid like that
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
why do you all hate capi, i like him! well i havent been hearing a lot of him recently but i like his sense of humour.
Giovanni Casanova
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jan 5, 2002
- Messages
- 5,550
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- Age
- 47
- Location
- Hiding in Penkitten's Linen Closet
Capi was banned. And eternal loved him because Capi was eternal's private little stalker.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
who the h3ll is capi?
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Thats because your sense of humour is rubbish. As was his.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
V
Void
Guest
Haha...this forum is pretty entertaining.
And I'm here to brush up on my SS skills.
Anyone still posting here anyways?
And I'm here to brush up on my SS skills.
Anyone still posting here anyways?