Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

Vincents Workout Log

Vincent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 18, 2002
Messages
3,595
Reaction score
5
Age
40
Ok well it's been a little while since I updated.

Last thurs: Ran, did a new route, it's a little shorter but more managable, the downhill isn't as steap, uphills the same though. Did ok, knew I could do better.

Missed fri, monday played golf

Tues: Did route again, actually ran the entire thing, I was really proud of myself, since usually I get wicked tired and give up at some point, this time I just bucked it up, realized I still had energy and just kept going. It felt great except I was dead afterwards. I got that tingly feeling in my fingers which is always annoying.

After this I ate some dinner, then I went to the gym. I lifted pretty light because it's been a while since I've been to the gym. I'm still kinda sore but I'm planning on going again tonight

Wed: Softball game, so no time to run or anything.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Top