"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Viewing oneself from the side

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adpreston1988

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As it is, I'm not the most confident guy in the world, but I am improving and am very confident at times. I really like the way I look from a front profile and have gotten some tighter pants recently so my rear doesn't look larger than it actually is, but I'm having trouble really feeling confident with how I look from the side. Maybe I'm just overanalyzing, and most people think they look weird from the side. I have no idea, but when I look at myself from the side I don't have as much confidence as I do from a front profile. I don't know exactly what the reason is, but I just thought I'd bring it up and see how people react to this topic.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Same. I am 5'8 160lbs and I feel from the front that I look fairly muscular, however when I see myself from the side, I see the same kid who weighed 130lbs a couple months ago.
 
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the only place they'll look at you closely from the side is in the army, so I wouldn't worry about it bro.
 
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