"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bible_Belt

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money by itself is worthless. Its basically pieces of paper

Back in the day, the US operated on the gold standard, which meant that for every dollar they printed, $1 worth of gold was deposited in Ft. Knox. Nixon ended the gold standard. If everyone wanted gold for their dollars at the same time, dollars would become worthless bits of cloth. Money is great as long as there is no economic collapse, but it is just an idea. With the stock market boom and bust, I saw many people become quick millionaires only to later lose it all back. I know ex-day traders who used to measure a day's wages in thousands of dollars, but lost it all and now work for an annual salary that is less than what they used to make in a month.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm not too worried about an economic collapse, as I'm fairly well-diversified -- I own gold AND ammunition.
 
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